Masturbating for Each other
We Enjoy Masturbating for Each Other
Masturbation is one of the most endearing, intimate, and revealing sexual encounters my wife and I enjoy. Although for many couples it is admittedly the cause of much division, yet, in mutual masturbation we give and receive blessing and peace. When we masturbate, it is neither inhibiting nor embarrassing; on the contrary, her approving presence frees me to dance. Instead of enclosing ourselves, we invite each other close. Instead of avoiding one’s sight, we seek each other’s stare. She gives me grace to celebrate our wedded bodies and we sing together. If by masturbating we love ourselves, then we also seek to love our neighbor (i.e. each other – our closest ‘neighbor’) and together to love God. If I seem to rationalize masturbation it is because of the intimate revelation and mutual pleasures that we enjoy, confident that, while we must never be prurient, we ought not to be prudes.
Of course, I also rhapsodize. She is my every dream, an answer to every prayer, my every fantasy fulfilled. I love her transfixed eyes upon me as I dance naked and play my instrument for her. It is a guitar I strum, a harp I pluck, a drum I beat. Like a tribal rhythm, the music ritual rises to a frenzied pace. I am a young savage, impassioned by love, whirling in a circle of eyes. I am untamed, wild, and mysterious. My wife, my lover, is my spectator and primal partner. She knows well the sacred rite and races in. We intermingle, we disentangle. We chant to the climax: as two we come, like one we become.
I am very grateful to God that he has given me a wife who likes to masturbate with me – and for me. She strokes me a like a virtuoso and I love her when she plays solo as well. There is something mysteriously erotic to see and imagine her masturbating. I love that she masturbates to my nude pictures – of me masturbating! I love her for all the times when we lay beside each other in bed and come together. I love her for caressing me while I fondle myself – encouraging me with “Make yourself come.” I love to whisper “Enjoy your body for me” and “Let yourself go” while she reaches for her clitoris.
Masturbation has been wonderfully freeing, intimate, and revealing for us. It has been an exciting adventure to beaches, ranches, forests, and on highways. I will always love my wife for the gracious reciprocity of masturbating. I know we will continue to enjoy each other and ourselves for many more years. We are beautiful in each other’s eyes.
If there are spouses or couples who fantasize of masturbating with each other, I certainly recommend and hope that they become agreed and fulfilled in its pleasures.
During my morning coffee, after my daily devotions and prayer, I settled in to read some inspiring stories and comments on MH.
I’m incredibly thankful for a sex positive wife and decades of a satisfying, God-ordained love and marriage bed. As we’ve aged, we’ve learned to enjoy love making and sex in a variety of ways. We’ve also set aside expectations and pressure to perform. Sometimes an orgasm is illusive, but our moments and sessions of intimacy are always completely fulfilling.
Anne and I have found that masturbating is a wonderful and often easier way to provide sexual pleasure for each other. Nothing thrills me more than to watch Anne give herself an ecstatic orgasm. She knows her body and as she masturbates she can free herself from aging performance anxiety and use her time tested techniques to ramp up to her orgasm. The same is true for me. She thrills to watch and hear me masturbate and with my hand in control my success of reaching a strong orgasm is heightened.
The reminiscing and reading through some inspirational (and horny producing) stories got me thinking about writing an account titled, ‘Masturbating for Each Other.’ When I typed in those words in the Search box, up popped this account by MH!
Mutual masturbation is fantastic! Anne and I encourage others to explore and incorporate mutual masturbation into a marriage bed. It has served us well as we’ve aged.
Another suggestion is to talk about and explore the generosity of celebrating solo masturbation. As oldsters, a horny moment ought not to be wasted! Anne and I encourage each other to masturbate when those horny moments cum our way. Nothing gets our motor running than if we walk in on each other – Anne in her evening bath or me as I’m reading in bed – and see the other fondling ourselves – Anne tweaking her nipple or rubbing her clit or me slow stroking my cock or playing with my balls. We also, encourage each other to jill-off or jack-off if we are going to be apart for awhile.
Mutual masturbation is highly recommended for the marriage bed and solo masturbation, too!
[Hmmm. Anne is out of the house, today, and one of those horny moments just hit me . . . signing off to jack-off for Anne and me!]