Sexy Nights that your Husband will Love –
This is a continuation of the list of hot ideas. I tend to like fantasy nights where there is a power exchange with me being in control somehow. I wish the power exchange excited her more, but mostly she plays along because of how much it excites me. However, I will always do anything for her sexually, and make a point of meeting her other non-sexual love needs very well. As I keep her love bank full, and she is more open to doing things that excite me on our monthly fantasy night.
1. Wrestle. I think nearly all young couples wrestle some during courtship. Being married, we can add wrestle leading to sex. She resists with about 20% of her strength, her goal is to delay intercourse for ten minutes. My goal is to complete intercourse before ten minutes. Of course, we both know I get to win since she is only using 20% of her strength. Be sure to have a safe work like “red light”, so if she really wants to stop.
2. We wait until after 1 a.m. or later on weekend nights. Then we turn off all the lights in the bedroom except a small night light across the room or a candle. We open the blinds and I bring her to orgasm. After she has been satisfied, I get my brief power sex fantasy period. I have hot sex with her on the bed.
3. Role play – Overspend. I would not recommend this one if you and your spouse really fight about spending on clothes. She picks up a new skirt and shirt from a thrift shop. The actual cost is likely under $10. But, we pretend that it was from a really expensive shop that does not take returns and I am upset with her. She is in trouble; and is ready to make amends. Her actions result in her getting a spanking. It is never hard, spanking does not excite or turn her on. I understand it does excite some wives, but my wife just plays along due to my excitement. After the brief spanking, usually only 30 seconds, I am ready for some quick hot sex.
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Sorry just saw your post. I do love to wrestle with Jake, but I like to try to delay him for a long time, thus getting him turned on ever more. When he has enough he will just pin me to the floor/bed with his big strong body. We will often do some role play you could say along with this. I go out and buy a cheep top and pants. When he gets turned on enough he will just rip my cloths off and we will have some heated fun.