Masturbating and Blessed

Since my wife and I are in our forties and been married for over 20 years, we are becoming more intimate and adventurous as a result of our frequent masturbation. My regret is that we did not masturbate earlier.

Unfortunately, we initially learned of each other’s masturbation during a period of emotional estrangement.  Our confession was enlightening to re-focus us toward a Christ-honoring relationship.  In addition, it inspired us to masturbate together.  After some fifteen years, the thrill of masturbating continues to excite us and draw us closer together. I find that both of our desires for each other has increased. It is like the more you use it the more your body is in shape for passion.

We enjoy the spontaneity and adventure that masturbating allows us since we are not confined to the bedroom or particular hours of the day.  I enjoy exposing my body to my wife as she either watches or assists me.  If either of us is tired or otherwise unavailable, we give each other blessing to also masturbate alone.

Sometimes we masturbate quickly but other times slowly; either way, we almost always enjoy intense orgasms.

It has not decreased our together marriage sex either. We are very comfortable with our marriage, our bodies, our sexuality.