My Special Kay
By: David Amsler
This is K writing this time. Almost always my wife Kay is the writer but she is out of town for the next few days at a Women’s Retreat with no access to the outside world so I decided to write a story instead. Please bear with me as writing is not my specialty. She is the one who has the gift of writing and putting into words all the fun and sexy things we do.
Since she is gone I thought I would try to write a tribute to her. I don’t know how “sexy” this will be but I want to say how much I respect and love her. She truly is a gift from above. She is a godly woman; she prays, reads the Bible and serves the Lord in many ways behind the scenes. I truly do not deserve her, but I am blessed to have her as my wife and best friend. Kay is funny, smart, full of energy and enthusiasm and friendly. She is always helping people and would do anything for you. And she is a sexual tigress.
My wife loves sex. She loves to talk about sex, write about sex and fortunately for me, loves to have sex. Regarding sex, Kay is very creative and spontaneous. She is not afraid to take risks even if there is a chance we might get discovered.
Her favorite writers on Marriage Heat are, of course, Blondie, GG, Lovinghusband, Seeking Passion, Elvis123, and Mommyofthreewifeofone (she of course enjoys all the contributors to MH). She has an especially tight connection to GG and is getting closer to Seeking Passion whose words usually make Kay cry. And she loves the male perspective on sex from Lovinghusband. It’s so cool how as men and women we can discuss our sexual lives here in an open and safe environment without fear of anything being taken the wrong way or having a double meaning. As a dude, I like when Kay writes back and forth with the male writers about sexual issues. I am not being weird or sinful by that, I just mean it’s nice to get a perspective from the opposite sex without worrying about what someone’s motives are, etc.
I think Kay stumbled across Marriage Heat last October and it has been a real Godsend for us. We have so much sexual passion and energy, this is the perfect venue for us to learn and share with others. And amazingly, even though we probably live very far from everyone and only know them from the writings, we feel we know many people on Marriage Heat. This is so cool to be able to experience such friendship and intimacy in a non-sinful way. You are our friends and we hope you feel we are your friends.
In the spirit of Loving Husband’s recent “Top 5” list (which was amazingly hot by the way) I thought I would write out a tribute to my dear Kay, especially since she is gone for a few days and the kids are with Grandma and Grandpa. It sure is quiet and lonely here—another thank goodness for Marriage Heat. So thank you Lovinghusband and Gina and Ben and Seeking Passion for your inspiration, here is my tribute to Kay in no particular order:
Like I said Kay is a Christ follower and a real Proverbs 31 woman. Daily she gives her life away for others (as Jesus taught) which is her most special gift to her family and others.
Sexually, as you can probably imagine from our posts, she is very sexual. What a lucky man I am. As I sit here writing this in the dark by candlelight with smooth jazz playing, here are some of my favorite sexual memories of this amazing woman:
Why do dogs lick themselves?–because they can…Kay used to be a cheerleader and gymnast. We have been married for 17 years and we try to stay fit, but we are not as fit as we used to be. Who is? Anyway, when we were first married, she was still pretty limber. I vividly remember soon after we recovered from our honeymoon week (she about wore me out), one night she asked me to come into the den as she wanted to show me something (I was in the back of the house). When I got to the den there she was naked (she loves to be naked) on her back, with her legs and knees close to all the way back to her head. Before I could say anything she said, “Does this make you jealous?” And she started licking her pussy! I couldn’t believe it. Somehow, she was able back then to nearly eat herself out. I mean watching her do this (she couldn’t get all the way down but her tongue reached the top of her clit) was an amazing sight. Watching her lick her hairy pussy and flick her tongue over her clit like that, wow. I jacked off right there and shot my load all over her tits. nd I got to watch her scoop my seed off of herself and lick the sticky goodness off her fingers.
Doing the splits–Another favorite benefit of being so limber was her ability to do the splits. I mean, she would have me lie down on my back, then carefully walk up to me naked, and carefully straddle me until she was doing the splits over my face so I could eat her out. This was so hot especially when I could see us in the mirror. I love eating her out, especially when she did the splits over my face and we used our hands to help keep her balanced.
Pretzel Sex–We still do this but not as much as we used do. She lies on her back on the floor and grabs her own ankles opening her legs as far as she can which is a beautiful sight (She must be double jointed or something!). With her prone in this position, I carefully stand over her, without my knees or legs touching the ground, and impale her with my dick. I dip myself in and out without really pounding her. The force of gravity and this entry position feels wonderful to the both of us as I slowly enter and exit her sexy lady garden.
Valentine’s Dare–We were staying in a hotel once and after an evening of fine dining and wine, we came back to our room ready for some fun. As we were talking (we love to talk during sex—sometimes nasty, sometimes intimate, sometimes just being together conversation), we talked about things we would be too shy to do. I said I could not walk outside naked in the hallway of this hotel. She looked at me and smiled, slowly stripped naked for me, and took the plastic room key. After slowly cracking the door to make sure the coast was clear, my amazing wife walked halfway down the hallway and back totally naked. It was amazing! No, she has not repeated that stunt but it was a very, very hot image still burned in my mind of watching her cute ass wiggle as she walked down the hall, and then her precious boobies naturally bounced on the way back. We had amazing sex that night!
Tree Hugger—I came home from work one summer night and couldn’t find her. Looking throughout the house I finally saw the most amazing sight in our fenced-in backyard. There she was, totally naked with her back against a tree tied up and blind folded. At first I was frightened something was wrong, but I saw a note by the patio door glass that read, “Sorry, I got all tied up this afternoon.” How did she do that? What if I brought someone home with me? She looked very sexy and sweaty out in the sun tied to that tree and blindfolded, especially with the white tan lines halfway surrounding her breasts. So I went outside and starting licking her thighs and ate her out right then and there on my knees while working her bosoms with my hands. When we could stand it no more, we made love right there in the grass after I untied her. She later confided that she talked her sister (who lives nearby) into tying her up snuggly to that tree for a nice surprise for me. It worked (a few days later she sent us the picture she took of Kay bound to that tree before I got home)!
Her Nude Photo Album—after we were first married, we were apart for the first three months, she on the west coast and me in the Midwest. For her birthday, she wanted to give me a special gift that would keep on giving. So she went to a dear photographer friend of hers who had done head shots of her for 5 years (everyone has a head shot photo for their portfolio in LA) to do a “special” glamour album for her new husband. It would be mostly in the nude. At first he was somewhat surprised, but since they were close friends and we were newlyweds, he agreed to do it. So over the course of an hour or two in the professional studio under the hot lights, my sexy hot wife was photographed in (and out) of several sexy outfits. Her naked shots were amazing. Her makeup and hair was perfect and she looked so beautiful and natural standing there naked in front of the camera. I’m talking full frontal nudity here. My two favorites are when she is topless and turned sideways looking over her shoulder at the camera as she slowly peeled down her swimsuit exposing her nice sexy ass. She has a sly look on her face as if to say, “Ok K, wait until you see what’s next.” And the next photo is incredible. She is facing the camera, totally naked with her arms outstretched reaching for me. The tender look of love in her eyes reaching for me is so honest and so vulnerable standing there in the nude. I mean bare breasted and prominent pubic hair for all to see. So beautiful! Her other sexy shots were of her licking her own breasts and nipples, stroking her ass with her back to the camera, and a variety of shots of her on her back,, legs splayed, masturbating and licking her fingers while the camera clicked away. I still jack off to those pictures to this day (and every Christmas, we receive a Christmas card from her photographer friend)!
Breast Play—Kay adores having her breasts fondled, especially while she was lactating. The more I knead and massage them, the hotter she gets. Even brought her to orgasm a few times working her breasts with my hands and mouth. For what seemed the longest time after she was pregnant, her breasts were filled with milk, so imagine how big her breasts became as they filled with milk. As she started to lose weight and get back into shape, she still asked me to “milk her.” For several glorious weeks, I was blessed to nuzzle at her tender breasts and partake of her precious milk supply. The baby wasn’t interested and Kay wanted to keep her milk ready just in case. So I guess with my nursing off her, her breasts kept producing milk. It was so erotic sucking her titties and drinking her warm milk while we looked each other in the eyes. Very tender and sweet. I loved her milk dribbling all over my face and her breasts. Sometimes she would squirt her milk into my mouth. Many times during sex, she’d ask me to do her doggy style with a stainless steel bowl under her breasts so I could express her milk like that. We both loved doing that and she especially found it natural and erotic expressing her milk into the bowl as I took her from behind. The thought of this makes me hard to this day.
Position Statement—She loves doing it in many positions. Doggy is her favorite, then Missionary, followed closely by Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl. She likes to have her ass slapped and breasts lifted and squeezed while taken from behind. She always gets excited feeling my balls slap against her ass.
Mirror Image—we enjoy making love in front of the mirror and seeing the reflection of us expressing our love for each other. It looks especially hot while she is giving me head or when I am eating her hairy muff. Yes, she keeps it neatly trimmed for me, but still, she is a naturally hairy girl down there and I love it. So natural, so fluffy, so tasty. It is magical to bury my head between her powerful legs and feast from what lies beneath her forbidden forest as we tenderly hold hands. Coming up for air every few minutes, the image of this in the mirror is incredible.
Bar Fun—we once went to a hotel for a weekend and after a day at the beach fantasizing and working ourselves up to another sexual frenzy, we agreed it would be fun for me to “pick her up” at the hotel bar. A potentially risky yet fun game. We showered and she made herself beautiful (as always) with a bright sundress that accentuated her tanned full figure (with some cleavage thrown in) and sandals. We agreed she would go down alone and I would join her in 30 minutes. I only gave her 10 minutes alone and snuck down to the bar from the opposite direction. There she was at the bar with a younger man already talking and flirting with her! I guess he thought she was a Cougar. Since I was pretty well hidden in the hall near the plants, I had a pretty good view. She was polite and friendly and engaged him in conversation. From the way his eyes kept darting around her chest and tanned legs, I could sense he had other plans. Sensing it was time to rescue her; I made my way to the bar and took the seat next to her. I said hello while they were talking and she slowly started conversing with me too. This started to irritate the younger gentleman, but since I was (and still am) a pretty fit guy who is 6’ 3 and over 220 pounds, I wasn’t worried. It was loud in there and I bought her a drink. He started to notice other women and probably got the message. Yet he sat there with us for nearly an hour and wouldn’t give up, still flirting with her and inviting her to dance with him. As my wife and I got friendlier and started touching each other as we talked, I think he finally got it. I paid for his last drink, and as Kay and I got up to leave together I thanked him for his company with a very firm handshake and even firmer eye contact. She took my hand as we made our way out towards the hall and I could see his reflection in the glass. He was shaking his head in amazement at the hottie that got away! She later told me she could feel his eyes on her so she wiggled her ass a little more than usual on her way out.
In Conclusion—I love Kay for the special woman she is. She is very kind and caring and attractive. I would love her regardless of her looks. But I am very blessed with the way God saw fit to create her. She has beautiful brown hair and eyebrows, a strong jawline, dimples and sexy white teeth. Her eyes are soft brown and are very sweet and loving. I love looking into her eyes as we make love together.
Some men might find this a turn off but not me. I love the soft blonde peach fuzz on her jaws, forearms, tummy, thighs and even her back. It is so sexy in the right lighting especially candlelight. And like I said, she has a naturally hairy mound of thick brown pubic hair that she keeps neatly trimmed. It looks so sexy on her, almost like she is wearing a pair of dark sexy panties—except it is her bush. I can’t get enough of her rubbing it in my face!
Her full breasts are a real treasure and I love how large her areola are. They look so sexy on her and the way they jiggle when she walks around topless. She is proud of them and likes to suck on them too.
It is wonderful massaging her strong legs from all those years being a gymnast. So warm and hard when she flexes her thighs. And even though she says her ass is “way too big” I remind her how much I adore her ass.
Yes, Kay is my best friend and mate. I am so blessed to have her. And the icing on the cake is this girl loves to be naked and loves to have sex. I give thanks for her each day.
I hope you liked this tribute to my Special Kay.
Thank you for reading this.
What a wonderful tribute K! Very hot! Kay is so lucky to have you dear sir. I admit getting a little misty eyed as you so genuinely expressed your love and devotion for “my sis ” ( I feel really connected to her as well. You too for that matter.)
Ben and I and you two seem to have so much in common it is almost scary. The way we feel about our spouses and our love of sex.
You write very well Mister! I had just masturbated to two wonderful orgasms prior to reading your wonderful tribute to Kay, but am now hungry for another one or two ( I am typing with one hand! Hehe. )
Thank you for the post my dear friend. I’m sure once Kay reads it, she will reward you justly ( plenty of her hot sweet pussy! ) Tell her ” sis” said be really good to you! Lol.
God bless you K! Tell Kay hi for me next time you talk to her. Keep it “up” and stay horny!
PS: I wish I was as limber as Kay! Mmmmm. GG.
That is a very beautiful and touching tribute<3. You expressed your love for your dear Kay in a very heartfelt way. God bless you for being a loving and appreciative husband who adores and loves his way and accepts her for who she is; inside and out.
For future references, may I add that you, dear sir, write very well indeed:-)
First: very well written. Don’t ever think you aren’t a good writer. Second I’m very sure that your Kay will be touched and turned on when she reads this. Third: I wanted to ask what Kay’s “secret” is to being so confident and adventurous. My wife would be mortified at the thought of doing things like walking down a hotel hall naked. We talked about doing the nude photography thing but how did you and Kay both feel about another man seeing her completely nude? My wife says she only wants me to see her nude. For the longest time she even went to a female gynecologist because she didn’t want another man seeing and touching her pussy and boobs, even in a medical context! And she always points out that the photographer probably keeps the negatives so how do you know he isn’t jacking off to nude pics of your wife? I was curious about your thoughts on all this.
K,
What a beautiful tribute! I’m sure she will melt in your arms when she reads it.
I think you are a great writer. I love the degree of vulnerability you both have with each other.
More than anything, I love the priorities you displayed in this tribute: Showing us Kay’s heart for God – and serving Him. MH does a good job of showing our sexy sides – and it is always a blessing to hear about what is most important in your lives – being in Christ by faith.
K, I also love the way you described the friendship that you feel with others on MH. All I can say is – your words described my heartfelt sentiments, too.
It is definitely a different kind of friendship that we have on this unique site – but as much as it is based in our common bond in Christ – our friendship is indeed real. I rejoice in that friendship – as I enjoy learning from you (and the other contributors on MH).
As we continue to follow the Lord, our interactions will continue to be not only “non-sinful” – but inspirational, motivating treats that help fuel our passions for our spouses!
I’m sure you and Kay will have a raucous reunion soon!!
Beautiful story
WOW!!! Being able to lick your own pussy must be the greatest thing in the world!! Wish I could do that!! Lol. No way I am that flexible though haha. Probably for the best, though. I would never get any work done heehee. :-). I am, however, able to suck on my own tits (big triple Ds). I quite enjoy that, that’s for sure!
Your abilities got me wondering: any guys on this list able to suck their own cocks?
I do like the taste of my pussy juices! Being able to eat out my own pussy would be fun in a kinky sort of way.
Ha Ha you make me laugh Booty-love your honest and funny comments! I could barely lick my hoo back in the day but certainly not now sadly. The only time I taste my juices now are while fingering myself or after K eats me out then kisses me. Wow triple Ds, I don’t know if I should congratulate you or share my condolences for the neck and back pain you must endure! Sounds like we both enjoy sucking our own titties though so that’s good!
On BTW I never mentioned this but yes when I pulled my self eating stunt, being the competitive man he is, K did lay on his back, press his legs all the way up the wall, and started doing crunches until he was able to suck himself. It turned me on but he has not done it since. Don’t tell anyone I disclosed this…:-D
Ben will probably kill me for saying this, but he told me once that when he was in high school, part of his masturbation sessions was to suck himself off. Said it got rid of the evidence. I asked if he thought he could still do it, but he just laughed and said no way. Darn!
Hahaha, yes my boobs can get heavy at times…especially during that time of the month. But my hubby is a boob man through and through and LOVES my big titties! I also have big sensitive nipples which which stay hard 99 percent of the time. Hubby really loves that too!! I love having my tits sucked so awhile back the idea popped into my head to see if I could suck them myself. Lo and behold, I could. So now I make that a regular part of my masturbation sessions. I love it the most when my hubby sucks on them but it still feels pretty darn good when I do it myself :-). I thought I was weird for doing it, but when I found MH I emailed Blondie to ask her opinion. She assured me that it was completely normal and that other women enjoyed doing that too. Thanks for that Blondie! I really appreciated hearing that!
Dear Kay,
When I read about your sister helping you get tied naked to a tree, I immediately thought, “Wow, how nice to be that close to your sister that she would help you like that!” I wish that my sister and I had that kind of relationship that we could talk openly about sex, masturbation, etc. and were totally comfortable being naked in front of each other etc. The problem is her, not me. I am totally comfortable with nudity, sex, masturbation etc. but she isn’t. We are both in our late thirties and I can honestly say that I have never seen her naked. She’s a prude, for sure. Her husband has told mine that she hates sex and that they hardly ever have it. I, on the other hand, LOVE sex and my hubby and I have a fantastic sex life! A couple months back, my sister stopped by unannounced for a visit (we live in the same city) and found me naked and playing with myself in our living room, which is right off the front door. I wouldn’t have cared at all (being my sister and all) but my sister reacted in a negative way and made me feel really embarrassed and perverted about masturbating. Trust me, I wanted to crawl under a rock and die! Anyway just wanted to say how wonderful it is that you and your sister are so,open with each other. That’s so awesome!!!
Lady Smitten and I just now discovered your tribute, K. It evoked wonderful feelings in us so that we discussed various parts of your story and I made tribute to Lady Smitten. Women are such wonderful creatures. We especially took notice of the bush and nipple sucking paragraphs, the milk. Thanks for causing me to tribute Lady Smitten.
You are one blessed man to have a wonderful wife that loves having sex & not afraid to try new & exciting things. The part about your wife eating her own pussy was hot & also when she walk down the hallway nude & having pictures taken in the nude that was fantastic. Its always great to try something daring to spice up your sex life. I wish I could get my wife to be daring like your wife. Great story & hope you will write some more.
Dear Anonymous,
Don’t you worry about a thing! That you were masturbating is 100% normal. I would say she’s in the minority for not doing it. Don’t let your sister corrupt you. Be comfortable in your nakedness. Be free in your sex life with your hubby. And play away! (gotta keep the pussy happy!) Who knows…maybe you’ll rub off on your sister one of these days when she sees how much fun you have. 🙂
My sister and I have always had a very close, comfortable, open and honest relationship. In fact, our relationship with our mom is the same. My dad’s work often took him away from home, leaving just the 3 of us at home. Nudity was never a big deal. My mom, sister, and I saw each other naked every day. And having only one bathroom and having to share a bedroom with my sister meant there was little privacy. So if we wanted to masturbate, we just did. That too, was just a natural normal part of life. My sister and I have seen (or heard) each other masturbate more times than I can count. It was never a big deal to us. As normal as seeing each other naked. We’re both married now but my sister will still come over to use our pool and hot tub. We never bother wearing swim suits. And when in the hot tub, we often like to position ourselves in front of the jets for a “hands free” orgasm (if you’ve never tried having a hot tub jet directed at your pussy before, you’ve got to try it!!! Even better than a detachable shower head).
My mom, sister and I talk about sex all the time. We even go sex toy shopping together. And we always give a review of our purchases (“must have” or “waste of money”). One time our husbands and dad were away on a fishing trip together so we women decided we’d surprise them when we got home. After dinner together one night, we all shaved our pussies bald. All three men LOVED it and we’ve been bald ever since. 🙂
Anyway, just wanted to share that. I love that my mom and sister and I are so close and can talk about anything. And anonymous, you just keep being you! The more relaxed about nudity and sex you are, the better! (for your husband and you) Don’t change! You can have a positive influence on your sister for sure!! I pray you do!
Chloe, what you describe between you and your sisters and mother is clearly unique! I’ve never heard of anything like it before. But it sounds like it worked for you guys. I’m very curious about the dynamic of this. And it stirs up several questions in my mind.
Do you think it would have been the same if you had a brother instead or in addition to this? Or if your dad was home more would you have seen each other nude as much? Did your mother ever masturbate in your presence or did you or your sister ever masturbate in the presence of your mother? You describe that listening or seeing each other masturbate was normal. Was it always normal or was it weird at first and you had to get used to it? Was it so casual that you sat and talked to each other like normal while masturbating? Or did you still give each other some privacy when you saw what they were doing? Now that you are grown and married, is it ever weird to masturbate or be nude with each other? How would you respond to someone who called that an incestuous relationship? Have either of your husbands ever caught you masturbating or nude together? If so, was that weird at all? Have you ever gotten in the pool or hot tub nude with both your husbands? Would that be okay to do in your opinion?
I look forward to hearing your thoughts on all this. Don’t get me wrong…I think it’s great that you had this. I’m just curious about the details because I’ve never heard of this before and I didn’t have any kind of openness with sex or nudity growing up.
K,
I just want to say how much I enjoyed reading these words of love and pleasure and how much you appreciate your wonderful wife!
I love the attention to detail and all the happy memories and intimate things you appreciate about such a wonderful woman. I hope to do the same with my future wife, whoever she may be. And enjoy all the unique talents she has and expressions of her sexuality and aspects of her body and personality that contribute to the sensual, sexual woman that she is!
Lots of good ideas in this post too. Thank you for sharing it.
Kay can lick her own pussy. That is so cool.
The bar fun roleplay reminds me of some older women that I have had the hots for.
[MH recognizes that "have the hots for" can be taken in different ways, from "found sexually attractive" to "pursued with the intent to have sex with." Rather than assume the intent was the latter, we have elected to let the OP clarify if questioned.]
Just like some teachers both a few years older/ younger and several years older, there have been some older women that I have found sexually attractive.
I have been interested in women my age, older and younger throughout the course of my life.
I have been interested in women in a wide range of careers, job positions and university/ high school careers through-out the course of my life.
To put things into context, I am in late 20's.
In terms of a relationship/ dating/ marriage as long as they are single, Christian and I am interested in them (sexually and personality-wise) and vice-versa, I am all for getting to know them and seeing where it goes.
I hope this helps to clarify any questions or issues with any of my previous statements.
Hi K,
Great tribute to you're wife. It is so cool that she is so limber and that she can eat her own hairy pussy. I have always wanted a wife with a hairy pussy since I saw Basic Instinct with Sharon Stone on the late night movie channel as a teen. Two of my high school buddies saw that movie on the late night movie channel as well and they loved that famous scene as well. No panties and a hairy pussy. I hope both apply to my future wife. I have never tried to suck my dick. I am afraid that I would hurt myself. I believe that both husbands and wives should take care of their bodies, not only to remain attractive to their husband/wife but also for their health so that they live as long as possible and have many years of wedded bliss together. I have been interested in women my age, older and younger throughout the course of my life. However, do believe that the bar fun roleplay was pushing things a little to far in my mind.
It would be pretty cool if my future wife was really limber and could eat her own pussy as well.
K has a hairy pussy; I was definitely born in the wrong decade. I hear hairy pussies are coming back in style, which sounds great to me. I hope my future wife has a hairy pussy.
The Bar fun story reminds me of how I have checked women's ass and legs when holding open the door for them.
I have had some get flirty with me or give their butts a little wiggle when they noticed that I was checking them out.