Sex Parables – The Bible Tells Them!

Sex Parables – Little Sister Song

Mark 4:2 And Jesus taught them many things in parables,…

The Bible has sex parables. Song of Solomon in the Bible has many sex parables. Here is one:

Song of Solomon 8:8-10

Friends

We have a little sister,

and she has no breasts.

What shall we do for our sister

on the day when she is to be spoken for? (8)

If she is a wall,

we will build on her a battlement of silver.

But if she is a door,

we will enclose her with boards of cedar. (9)

Beloved

I am a wall, and my breasts like towers;

Then I was in his eyes like one who finds peace. (10)

Sex parables are plentiful in Song of Solomon. Sex parables like this were often sung. The story and the art of poetry were put together to communicate straightforward, passionate truth. This “Little Sister Song” is one of the sexual parables in the book of Song of Solomon in the Bible. The verses tell the story of a little sister who will grow up soon. This “Little Sister Song” is filled with irony and beauty. The innocence of a girl (or a boy for that matter) before the hormones begin to awaken. We all can relate to this story for ourselves and for our children and the way sexual desire blossoms in all of us.

Many of us remember the time before our sexual awakening. The thought of the opposite sex had little physical attraction. “Boys have cooties” and “Girls are annoying.” Then one day something dramatically changes. For boys, the mere sight of a girl, can cause their penis to become erect. For girls, the longing for the “love story life” starts filling their imaginations.

This place of maturity is where verse two in this “Little Sister Song” takes us. This innocent child has grown up into a sexual being. The implication is that she now has breasts and sexual desires. She is now processing all relationships as a fully sexual person. This parable brings us to see different sexual responses to maturity. One response is sexual virtue where this grown-up sexual sister is a wall and builds her virtue for her husband someday. This is not to say that she is repressing her sexuality. No. She is building her sexuality into a fortress to be erected for her future with her husband.  The result of her sexual maturing is that she is prepared for her sexual journey in marriage, where she was building her wall/fortress for victory and protection.

If she cannot keep her sexuality for marriage and she is tempted to sleep around before marriage, the community of those who love her will do their best to protect her until she is married. We will “enclose her with boards of cedar.”  The community structure of that day certainly seemed to have a more protective presence than ours today. We need to find ways to speak into the lives of our daughters and sons again.

There is no doubt about it, in this “Little Sister Song” the woman who builds her sexual identity for marriage is building a feminine fortress. This feminine fortress will bring hot sizzling protection and pleasure in marriage for her and her husband. Song of Solomon 8:10 is verse three in the song, where a hot mature wife says, “That was me. I built a wall and fortress for my man and me.  My breasts are no casino pa natet match for an army of breasts who try to break down our marriage.”

There are many sexual truths in the sex parables from the Song of Solomon for women and men. It takes a lot to build a fortress. When our children are young, we want them to learn how to construct their sexual fortress. Here are some of the sexual truths I see from the “Little Sister Song”:

1. Sex Education by Relationship Connection – Help our children know that Mom and Dad love marriage and enjoy the fortress. This fortress is not only about sex, it is also about protection. This protection brings hope and stability in more areas than only moral faithfulness. Your children see your “city walls” by you talking to them about your journey and how you learned to be towers of sizzling protection.

2. Masturbation Encouragement – When our children are starting to masturbate, encourage them to masturbate to develop their imagination for marriage. Talk about the worldview of pornography and how this worldview is tearing down what they are trying to build. At some point, have them read Horny Husband”s Defense of Masturbation. Click here. 

3. The Power of Story – The songs in our culture are usually about being doors and not fortresses as they tell sex parables about sexual freedom from God”s way. I remember a line in a Billy Joel song, “Good girls don”t, but I do.” A MarriageHeat Girl sings, “Good girls do in marriage, and marriage sex is hot.”

4. Sexual Protection is Needed. We live in a time in history, where married or single can easily see and read sex parables of unrestrained lust through pornography and erotic literature. Many of our imaginations have been exposed already to sights and stories that have put us at risk. Building or rebuilding your fortress is something this community is about. The steamy, sizzling sex parables shared here bring a refreshing and sexy God-glorifying worldview. Pastors and counselors will tell you that where there is a hot marriage, it usually fuels faithfulness.

5. Share More Godly Sex Parables In Our Culture.  When you share your stories, you help others build their fortresses. MarriageHeat has received thousands of comments about how MarriageHeat has changed the game for their marriage. It is not the website address that has changed the game, it is the stories and sex parables shared here that have made a difference.

Sex parables are powerful. The world is telling them in music, movies, books and word of mouth. The sex parables are told everywhere, mostly breaking down marital love.

This MarriageHeat community is about sex parables and the sharing of stories that will change the world.

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25 replies
  1. YoungMatt
    YoungMatt says:

    31,
    I had a very promiscuous past with alot of annonomous sex before I came to Christ. I fought my addiction for about three years and was clean for 1 yr before I married my smoking hot wife. The sex was good when when we got married but it is amazing now! It has been for a while and we’ve only been married 5 yrs.
    We put 0 effort into making it exciting, I just can’t get enough of her, our sex is the biggest blessing I think I have. I literally can’t believe I get to have sex this good with somone I’m so attracted to whenever I want. We do all the stuff you read about on this site and then some.
    I really think the reason its so good is because we follow the biblical guidelines. We don’t fantasize about other people or use porn and i think God has blessed us for it. Im not saying that in a judgemental way, I want you to know supernaturally amazing sex is available to you.
    Thats no exaggeration I’ve been around the block and I wouldn’t trade one romp with my wife for 10 romps with porn stars.

  2. HornyHubby
    HornyHubby says:

    31,

    I’m so glad you found this site. I hope and pray it is the beginning of healing for you and your husband’s sex life. I am convinced that if you will continue to read and post on the site, the Lord will use it to help you guys.

    I did have a question for you. And I hope this isn’t too forward or anything…but I have studied psychology and marriage and sex counseling for several years, and I find myself very intrigued by your situation. And I’ve been thinking about it and I wanted to ask if you were comfortable talking about this. I wonder if you would be open to helping me understand the psychology behind this. For instance, everything I’ve ever read about the swinging lifestyle involved the husband wanting it and the wife resisting and finally giving in just to shut him up. But your situation sounds like you wanted it and the porn too. And that you enjoyed swinging and the porn too. I’m also curious about the psychology behind wanting to share your spouse with someone and wanting to be shared. As a student of psychology I guess I’m curious. LOL! But I also want to be sensitive to you and I don’t want to cause you to stumble in any way or fall back into something you’re trying to get out of or anything like that. Please let me know one way or another if you would be comfortable with that. I basically have a list of questions for a former “swinger.” So just let me know and we’ll go from there.

  3. HornyHubby
    HornyHubby says:

    Great post! Really enjoyed it. And thanks for the recommendation to read my defense of masturbation.

  4. HornyHubby
    HornyHubby says:

    I am curious…How did the talk turn out? What was resolved? Where do you each stand on this as of now? (if you are comfortable sharing I was curious to know.)

  5. HornyHubby
    HornyHubby says:

    I have the same problem. I don’t tell people about the site because I don’t know how they will react to it or to me once they learn I visit the site regularly. If they are not as open minded as I am about things they may judge the site (and me) prematurely. Many people would say this site is not okay because sex is to be private between a husband and wife. Then they would say we are a little too “loose” with our morals on here because we engage in kinky play, dirty talk, etc. They would say those have no place in a Christian marriage bed. And then I would lose them altogether because they would shut down from listening to anything I have to say. This has happened to me before on other subjects. So I don’t dare open this up when it comes to sexuality. (Plus I’m not sure how I or others would feel about reading about mine and my wife’s sexual adventures. The anonymity on the site allows us to share freely. Knowing a friend, family member, church member, neighbor or co worker was reading about what me and my wife do and say might create an awkwardness to our relationship.)

    The attitude I have at this point is that IF I run across someone who is open minded to these things and the opportunity arises, I might share this site with them. I would like to do more to promote the site but at this time I am just trusting God to bring people to this site. I figure those who are open to it will eventually find it. Just as I did and you did and everyone else on here did. But I don’t have any other answers besides that.

  6. Lovinghusband
    Lovinghusband says:

    31,

    So glad to hear you two had a great talk!

    Please feel free to ask more questions to the MH community! We don’t
    claim to be “the” experts on anything – but you will get honest responses.

    Christ is a merciful Savior and that HIs ways are best! We want to point
    you not to ourselves – but to Him and His Word.

    Have a great Memorial Day weekend.

    LH

  7. Harper Shelby Thornton
    Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    God bless you, Lovinghusband my brother! God has clearly given you wisdom 😀 I’m sure your wife loves for that and many other things. I agree with the things you say, Godly sex is the best sex!

  8. Harper Shelby Thornton
    Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    If you read the Word of God, you’ll find that sex between a husband & wife is encouraged, and in Corinthians we are told not to deny sex to our spouses.

    1 Corinthians 7:5 (KJV)

    Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

    Anf this isn’t the only place the Word of God talks about this. God bless you, and may He guide you

  9. Eva
    Eva says:

    MH- this concept of parable is really helpful, so glad to read this. I’m looking forward to reading more parable type posts….

    And 31, I’ve been thinking of you and your husband all day. Praying for you. Hoping Jesus will pour some light and love and truth into your world right now.

  10. cameron
    cameron says:

    I don’t think I have ever been bored with my husband Jake. He takes such good care of me and my “needs” ;). Jake and I have never had anal sex and really don’t plan on it. I like Jake in only 2 parts of me, my mouth or vagina. I am not judging any one who does like anal, but it is just not for us.

    People on here have grate sex lives. I don’t know if every Christian is that way, but on here a lot of people are.

    I hope you fined a reply to ever question you have.

    Take care.

  11. Upcomingauthor
    Upcomingauthor says:

    But that’s the trick right? The media wants to show people in marriage having terrible sex lives, and so we have shows like “Scandal,” How To Get Away With Murder” “Mistresses” and so on and so forth where people choose to be lazy and go find something new. Like Silver said, New is nice, but there are problems later down the road with that, and it’s lazy. Yeah, not gonna lie, have there been times I’ve wanted to see how many notches I could have if I wasn’t married, yes? But that’s my sinful lustful desire. Whenever I get that idea, I just think about how I can keep one woman happy each and every day and that’s already a job in itself. Heck, this website is based on the principles of Songs of Solomon who made numerous wives and concubines, and I’m not sure how he was able to keep them happy except for the fact he was rich. If you read any of my stories, you will see that I’m not just young and horny, I’m a man of God who realizes that God said, “Be fruitful and multiply” BEFORE sin came into this world. If sex was a sin or only made for making children as some “Christians” believe then why would he had said that knowing exactly how good sex feels and that it can’t be contained to just baby making 😛 Heck, most women lose it like crazy for their man when they are pregnant. Could you imagined being pregnant and feeling all of that but nope, you must abstain until you have that baby and go to make another one…that would suck.

    Sex is fine and hot when we do it God’s way and God says “GO AT IT!” once you’re married. Glad you found the website 31 and that its opening your eyes.

    Before I go, as for the Anal part, my wife and I have done anal twice, the second time was just last week and both times its hurt her and when it does I stop. But it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t enjoy it. In fact she asks me to do it but after the first time hurt her I was reluctant for awhile. But after how she reacted last time I may do it again soon. I say all that to tell you that everyone has their own prefaces about their sex life — some like to be spanked and tied up, some men maybe want their wives to do a little anal play, a wife may want a dido while she sucks her husband off. You have to do what wonks for you and your man. That’s what its all about.

    God bless, hope you enjoy more stories.

  12. Silver
    Silver says:

    31, My husband and I do a variety of things to keep it new and exciting with sex. There is nothing boring about our monogamous sex lives as those who read our stories probably can tell. I orgasm every time (usually more than three times), and I just sucked him off earlier today before he went to a work meeting lol In my opinion, sex in marriage doesn’t have to get boring unless you LET it get boring.

    I think some married couples turn to swinging without realizing it’s the lazy way of making things “exciting”. I can understand why “new” would be exciting: A new body, a new voice, admiration from someone else… But the thing is, my husband already has all the “equipment” I need to have an incredible time (and boy, am I enamored by his “equipment” and the way he uses it), and I have all the “equipment” to give him a good time. His creative brain and my creative brain keep us busy and I wouldn’t want to share him and he doesn’t want to share me. lol We research into things we can try and come on this site for ideas and support. If you’re monogamous you shouldn’t ignore exploring and igniting the sexual aspect of your relationship, don’t wait until another sexual partner comes along to introduce you to something new.

    On a final note. I wouldn’t recommend swinging to my friends who want something “exciting” even if I wasn’t a Christian because, in my opinion, there are many issues that can turn up eventually for couples who swing, a few of them could possibly be: jealousy, comparison at later dates, emotional attachment to a person who doesn’t belong to you, STDs, STIs, and then transmitting them to your spouse, dissatisfaction with your spouse when they don’t treat you like “so-and-so” did, growing apart as spouses as you play with different people, and pregnancy from someone not in the marriage. (And, maybe I should mention that personally I’m a sexual submissive and I could even put myself in danger by being with a Dominant who doesn’t respect my limits like Lord X has proven himself to throughout our years of marriage to build that trust).

    As you probably saw, what I listed aren’t Biblical reasons, they’re just emotional and physical safety reasons. I don’t say this to judge. Monogamy isn’t exactly “encouraged” in the media or even “current” and “cool” in secular intellectual thinking. Unless you’re on a site like this, it’s unusual to hear of sexy stuff that is exclusively monogamous. Maybe none of the issues I listed on swinging above are a problem so far for you and your husband, but, in regards to being a Christian and MY sex life, I think my God endorses being faithful to each other and monogamous for OUR benefit and safety, not because He doesn’t want us to have a good time with sex. 🙂

    God bless you and your husband on your journey, 31, and glad you found this site!

  13. 31
    31 says:

    Thanks. I have to leave now too. I am going to talk to my husband about stuff tonight. I think that as much as I have enjoyed pornography and such, I think we are both looking for something different.

  14. Lovinghusband
    Lovinghusband says:

    Sorry for not being able to reply more – but I have a work commitment now. I don’t know the answer to that question. I do know some people have written in – in the past – but don’t know if any of the regular or semi-regular members of the MH family have that in their past. Take care! LH

  15. Lovinghusband
    Lovinghusband says:

    PS 31 – I invite you to read all of my posted stories on MH. As you read them, I want to know if you think my beloved wife of 29 years and I have a boring sex life? 🙂

    I look forward to checking in on MH later tonight to see if you reply. God bless you and your husband! I hope you make many friends for life here on MH! LH

  16. 31
    31 says:

    Thanks Loving Husband for all the time you spent writing all you wrote. I will check out the “about” section more. I have been spending the day on this site…two orgasms…lol. I am so hot for my husband for later. Seriously, your witness to marriage and God is cool. Are there people who used to swing on this site?

  17. Lovinghusband
    Lovinghusband says:

    Dear 31,

    I didn’t see this message from you until I had already written something else to you. I just want to say “NO” about boredom. That is my testimony.

    You would have some period of adjusting back to a monogamous lifestyle. What you have experienced – in going beyond God’s boundaries – does carry some initial excitement. Yet, it does NOT satisfy. It doesn’t satisfy because it is not the way the One who made us designed us to function. Sinful orgasms are exciting. Yet, it is living in the aftermath of them that leaves that unsatisfying taste in your mouth. Commitment to consistent monogamy will not be boring.

    BTW, some Christians enjoy anal – but MH (siding with caution, and wanting to promote sex with less threat of harm) does not promote stories where anal is the focus.

    I’m glad you are “amazed” at horny Christians who are loving their sex lives. I would say that it is normal – in that it is God’s design. I’ve had the honor of working with a number of married couples in counseling over the years – yet, I don’t claim to be some expert. My experience in my counsel has been that Christians – as an extension of their living for God – do have very pleasurable sex lives as the norm.

    Yet, in all honesty, there is a strain of repression that has some pseudo-Christian historical roots. I say pseudo – because this repression is not from the Bible! Yes, the Bible condemns in the strongest terms – both heterosexual and homosexual sexual sin. Sex acts are to be committed by a husband and wife in the covenant bounds of marriage. Yet, the freedom of the marriage bed is a wonderful place!!! God has not shackled us – He was designed husbands and wives to be free with each other in the most horny of ways.

    I feel bad for those who have gotten the impression from Christians that sex is repressed. That is a wrong example – and not a byproduct of the Bible – but of buying into a false philosophical narrative that goes back to hundreds of years before Christ.

    Dear 31, entrust your life to Christ – and you will experience a wonderful journey – and I’m talking way beyond sex!! His mercy is sweet! His love is perfect! He is the ultimate restorer of the soul. He made us – and knows how to put the pieces back together. God bless you! LH

  18. Lovinghusband
    Lovinghusband says:

    Dear 31,

    I’m so glad you found this website. I encourage you to read all the information in the “About” section above. There is an awesome life – built on the foundational truth of God’s Word – that you and your husband would find the greatest joy in. Thank you for being so open about where you are coming from. I want you to know that we are all sinners in need of the mercy and forgiveness that only Christ can give us. None of us (in the MH family) are righteous in and of ourselves. The insecurity that you are experiencing is one of God’s merciful “alarms” going off in your conscience! I’m glad you are hearing that alarm. I want to encourage you towards the greatest security you can know. Please keep coming back to MH – and reading the stories of people who love sex – within the bounds that God has set for us. God has designed us to enjoy this wonderful gift of sex. It is truly awesome. You will find that many of these Christians on this site are as horny as you could imagine. Yet, the joy of living out our fantasies with our spouses only is part of God’s plan. No shame! No guilt! Great contentment! Not boring!!!! I am in my early 50’s and my wife and I are as hot as ever in our sexual relationship. We are as horny as we’ve ever been. We are still growing in our discovery. It just never stops. Dear 31, I beg you to go back to your “God-loving home” roots! If you are still breathing – it is not too late. Listen to your conscience. Jesus promised that all who would repent and believe in Him – would have eternal life. The reception of this life from God changes us. You will not have to say goodbye to sex – in fact, what you will experience with your husband will not disappoint you. God changes our hearts and minds in wonderful ways. If He can change a sinner like me – and forgive me – then, He can save and change anyone! Your message so touched my heart.

    So, not because I am better than you in any way – because I am NOT! But, because of God’s mercy in my life – I want to pray for you and your family. I want you to know the joy and forgiveness! God can rebuild what has been damaged. For your sake, your husband’s sake – and for your precious children. I will be praying for you dear folks. Please feel free to interact with many loving people on this site. God will give you wisdom in the days ahead. You will see that we love you – because God has shown His love to us in Christ. Yes, we love sex! We love the Lord first and foremost! In other words, we love the Giver of the gifts – even more than we love His gifts to us. Yet, we do unashamedly enjoy His gifts, too. 🙂

    I am praying for God’s rich blessings on you! May God use MH to draw you close to Him. LH

  19. 31
    31 says:

    I was searching for “sex stories”. i like sex with my husband. If you just committed to having sex with one person, would you get bored with it? I like the fact that MarriageHeat does not have anal stories!!! That certainly was not a good experience, even after a few tries! I am amazed in a good way that Christians here have such great sex lives. Is that normal? That was not my impression from some former Christians I have met. We swang with a couple who said that their swinging was liberation from their repressive Christian past.

  20. cameron
    cameron says:

    Grate post MH. My kids are to young to have these talks with, but when that day comes I will be ready lol.

  21. cameron
    cameron says:

    31 you are so right all of these stories are hot. If you ever have any questions about any thing regarding you sexual life or not here is a place to ask. So keep reading and enjoy all the stories.

    Take care.

  22. 31
    31 says:

    I am 31 and thinking about Sex. My husband and I have enjoyed pornography and some limited swinging. My young children have no idea what we do, we are careful. I was raised in a God-loving home. We are asking questions about how long we can keep this up? I am getting more insecure about my sexuality. The stories on this site are very different to the ones we watch and masturbate too. My husband and I are starting to read these stories. They are so hot. In many ways more hot.

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