Wedding Night Virgins – Breaking The Hymen

Wedding Night Virgins

After three years of courtship and 15 months of being engaged, our relationship was legal in God’s eyes. Krissi and I were finally husband and wife. After the pastor had said those magic, you may kiss your bride words, Krissi and I shared our very first ever kiss!

Our wedding day couldn’t have been better. It was perfect. After the reception, we got in the car and drove off to our hotel. We were wedding night virgins and my heart was racing. We were for the first time ever were alone as husband and wife. During our courtship and engagement,  we both decided to leave everything for marriage, which included kissing and only being in group settings. God was at the center of our relationship.

As we pulled up to the hotel and got into our suite, my heart was pounding. Here after 4.5 years I was alone with the love of my life. We could do anything we wanted. I went over to Krissi and kissed her. I tried to kiss her deeper, but with us both being new to this, the kisses were sloppy. I went down to kiss her neck, and I felt her hands on my slacks between my legs. Krissi was touching my penis! No one had ever done that before.  I couldn’t believe it.  All was ok in God’s eyes because we were married!  I grew very anxious and excited. I couldn’t wait to see all the gifts God had for us.

As we continued kissing, Krissi said she would like to take a bath. I was a bit bummed. The anticipation was killing me. Four years of sexual tension were waiting to be released.  But I knew we had the rest of our lives to explore.  We didn’t need to do everything in one day. Krissi went into the bathroom to run the water and created a bubble bath for the two of us. As I got undressed and took off the last of my clothing, Krissi came out in a robe telling me the bath was ready. She was staring at me. Her eyes were wide.

I was hoping  Krissi would remove her robe. I wanted to see how she looked with nude. I went over to her and kissed her. I told her to remove her robe so we could get in the bath together. But she was hesitant.  She said maybe we should bathe separately.  My heart sunk a little.

Krissi: I was scared. I’d never been naked in front of anyone before.  I didn’t know what Nate would think of my body. This was all still new to me. However, Nate was kind and easy going. He told me there was nothing to worry about.

I told Krissi it was alright to take off her robe. I wanted to see her nude and take in her beauty.  She still was hesitant.  So I began to kiss her neck. It put her at ease. Before she knew what was happening,  I undid her robe. I caught a glimpse of her body before she pulled away. I told her that her body looked amazing. There was nothing to hide anymore. Krissi finally decided to take off her robe and throw it to the side. I took in every inch of her. Her body was perfect. I touched her breasts. I couldn’t believe I could do this. I was touching her all over. I even put my hand between her thighs. I grew very excited. My penis became erect. Krissi had sort of a blank expression on her face.

Krissi: I was a sheltered virgin.  Nate’s penis getting hard, shocked me. I never saw that before. His penis was also bigger than it was before. I’m thinking to myself, no way can that fit inside me. I never stuck anything in my vagina, not even a finger. So seeing his penis hard, big, pointing and thinking how small my hole was, was startling. I was hoping that we could both just bathe and go to sleep.

We went into the bathroom, and both got into the tub. It was warm and filled with lots of bubbles. We both washed each other off, kissed, and explored each other. Krissi was uncomfortable touching my penis. She thought it would hurt me. She asked if it hurt to have my penis pointing like that. Of course, I laughed and said no. I took her hand and put it on my erect penis.  I told her she could touch it all she wanted. It was okay. Under the soapy water, she took my penis in her hand and started stroking. It felt exquisite.

After a while, the water began to get cold. So we both got out and dried each other off. As Krissi was lying on the bed, I laid next to her and started kissing her all over. My hard penis was touching her hip. Krissi asked if we could just go to sleep and not do anything else. She was worried my penis wouldn’t fit. She said she was scared and nervous.   I assured her my penis would go in, and there’s nothing to worry about since God created our body parts to go together.

Krissi: I was scared. There was just no way his penis was going to fit. I was afraid it might hurt, or Nate might break something down there. I was also nervous.  I didn’t know what to expect. Nate told me God created our parts to fit, and the vagina stretches to accommodate anything entered inside. He said it might hurt but only for a little bit.  If it did hurt, he’d stop. This reassurance calmed my nerves a bit.

I continued kissing Krissi all over. I moved on top of her and took in her beautiful, perfect sized breasts. I licked them all over and gently nibbled.  Krissi told me how good it felt.

Krissi: Nate kissing and licking my breasts was making me wet between my legs. I was very excited, which was a new feeling. His tongue and kisses were sweet and delicate.  He just took it nice and slow.

I went down and kissed Krissi’s stomach then went back up to her breasts then planted kisses on her neck and earlobe. I felt my erect penis right near her hole. I wanted just to put my penis inside, but I knew I had to be slow and gently.

As I continued my kisses, I went back down her stomach and between her legs. My mouth was near her clit. I blew on it slightly. I didn’t know how Krissi felt about oral sex. I didn’t know how she’d react.  So I went down to her vaginal hole.  I then put two fingers inside. My wife’s vagina was very wet.  I felt it was time to enter her. I was very nervous. My heart felt like it was going to come out of my chest.  I positioned myself between her legs while kissing her neck. Krissi was on her back legs apart. I asked her if she was ready. She said yes but told me to be gentle and not hurt her. I fumbled around trying to put myself inside her (No one told us how awkward sex is the first time. It’s a learning experience).

Finally, I found her hole and gently put the head of my penis inside her. Krissi jumped and gasped. She wanted me to get off her and told me this wouldn’t work. My penis was too big. I reassured her that it was her hymen that was in the way and needed to be broken. I told her I would never hurt her. She relaxed a bit and said she trusted me. I nibbled at her breasts while trying to inch myself deeper. Again Krissi gasped and jumped in pain.

“Get off me! It hurts,”  Krissi said as I held her.

“Baby,” I said, “I know it hurts, but it will get better.”

“No, it won’t! You lied to me! You said you’d be gentle!” Krissi cried.

“I know it hurts. I’m trying to be as gentle as I can. But your hymen is in the way. I have to break it.”

I knew Krissi might not let me slowly get inside her. I also knew we had to do this. If we didn’t deal with this now, we’d have to deal with it later. So without warning as Krissi was still trying to get me off her, I quickly thrust my penis inside her, breaking her hymen. Krissi yelped in pain and with tears in her eyes was begging me to get off her.

It broke my heart to see her cry. I held my position and reassured Krissi it’s okay. It shouldn’t hurt anymore. I was inside her. But she continued to try to get me off her. I decided to take my thumb and rub her clitoris in a circular motion. She stopped trying to get me off her.

“That feels good,” she said.

I then removed my thumb and took one of Krissi breasts in my mouth. I started thrusting slowly.

“How does it feel?” I asked.

“It feels good!” Krissi murmured.

“Does it still hurt?”

“No!” she said as she put both her arms around me pulling me in.

I started thrusting a little faster. The look on Krissi’s face said it all. My wife was enjoying herself. I couldn’t believe we were finally doing this. Coming together as one flesh as God intended. Krissi had just given me her most prized precious procession. I had just given her mine. It was an incredible feeling.

I continued thrusting and at times my penis fell out. It was frustrating. It also resulted in laughter, but again sex is a learning experience. Every movement, every stroke is heaven on earth. It’s  hard to quantify or accurately describe something that can be a very personal thing between two people. My penis and body were in pleasure. A pleasure I never had felt before.  A pleasure God created and only Krissi could bring to me. Now I understood why God asked us to wait. Every time I pulled out, I wanted to be back in. Nothing else in the room mattered except that very moment. It was like an addiction my body craved.

Krissi was holding me close. I kissed her deeply on her neck. Pretty soon. I ejaculated, which was a bummer. I thought I would last a lifetime, but it was only our first time. I kissed her deeply on her lips. I laid next to her. My head was on her chest.

“Did you like our first time?” I asked.

“At first, no, but then it felt good. I loved it!” Krissi said. “When are we trying again?” Suddenly Krissi started crying. I didn’t understand why.

Krissi: I just realized what happened. Just a few hours ago we shared our first kiss, were alone, and lost ourselves in each other. A flood of emotions came to me all at once. I was in love. I felt a deeper connection with Nate than I did before. The feeling of Nate on top of me, breathing on me as he touched me, kissing me in my most delicate places and sliding in and out of me can’t be described in words.  I couldn’t believe what I had just experienced or what had happened. Experiencing it for the first time with my husband was a precious, wonderful thing. I felt so grateful and happy that I had waited for him, and he waited for me. My gift of virginity that I protected for so long was given to a person God put in my life. It was so worth it to wait and experience everything on our wedding day. I will remember and cherish this day forever.

As I held Krissi in my arms and tears rolled down her cheeks, she asked me if we could have round two. She wanted that same feeling as before. Of course, I didn’t resist. I got another erection pretty quickly. Again I got between her legs as I kissed her breasts. Again it was hard to find her hole, but Krissi helped guide my penis inside. Again that fantastic, indescribable feeling came over Krissi and I. Again my lovely wife’s face said it all, her nails digging into my ass cheeks instructing me to go harder. Again my penis fell out at times, and we both laughed about it. Again I didn’t last as long as I wanted, but I stayed inside my wife to cherish the moment.  After our second go around, I again laid my head on Krissi’s chest. Before we knew it, we were both exhausted and went to sleep in each others arms. This day will never be forgotten.

Krissi: One month after our wedding, what I thought was food poisoning turned out to be a baby. I took the pregnancy test and saw those two little lines. I was scared and in shock. Nate and I didn’t plan to get pregnant so soon! I didn’t know how he’d react. As soon as he came home, I showed him the test. He was also in shock and cried. He asked if that was real, I said yes. He hugged and kissed me through tears. When we went to the doctor, another shocker was finding out we conceived on our wedding day. When we went on our honeymoon and while we were there, we talked about how long we’d like to wait to have babies. Little did we know that we were already pregnant We’re thrilled, though, and we love that it’s a wedding night baby. Our wedding day will forever hold an important imprint on us.

Watch the YouTube Video that explains the biology of the Hymen