Website Explaining

Been a while since I’ve been on here, but I have some questions for you all.
So today being Sunday I was sitting in class after worship with my tablet open. I look down at my notifications in the upper left hand corner and I see I have a new e-mail. Lo and behold when I slide the menue down it says something like “marriage and sex stories password reset” Ummm…whoops…Bout time the email got here, but bad timing.. Almost as bad as when I went on Amazon during class to look up a verseless bilbe. I punch in the letter V and the first things that come up in the auto suggestion are ‘Victoria Secret, and Vibrators for sex’ and I closed that window double quick…”I don’t even remember searching for that!…”  I thought.
I don’t think anyone saw, but I kept my phone in my pocket the rest of the class.

So my question is: has anyone had any awkward tech moments, or had to explain this site to others, (especially other Christians who for some reason will readily jump on one another it seems) How do you go about telling others about this site. How specific or vague are you about what’s on here?
Have you ever had to explain this website to any of your children who may have stumbled on your browsing history. I mean how do you handle those situations?

There are some controversial things the area of sex that I’m very  positive in the support of. Be it kinky sex, masturbation, this website. I think these are good things by themselves, but because of their capacity to be abused, I think there’s a bit of a cut off for many people saying “we just won’t eve go there” (And on that note, please take tim to say a prayer for me. I belive masturbtion is awesome, and that this website has been a blessing for many couples, but I sometimes question my motives behind frequenting one or the other)
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  1. Upcomingauthor says:

    I honestly just tell them that its runs with the intention of being like Songs of Solomon which is a whole book in the bible dedicated to love and sex.

    Then I go to telling them that the viewpoint of sex being bad for Christians is wrong on both the society side and the Christian side. Sex is beautiful, in face the book that is being advertised under your story has one of my favorite quotes of all time about sex, he's quoting another author– Stephen Schwambach.

    "Anyone that has ever experienced Great Lovemaking instinctively knows the truth: Sex is too good to have just happened. It didn't evolve as a result of some cosmic accident. Something that exquisite had to have been loving, brilliantly, and creatively designed.

    If an atheist ever comes up to you and demands proof there is a God, all you have to answer is one word: Sex. Give him a day to think about it. If at the end of the day he remains unconvinced, then he has revealed far more about his sex life–or lack thereof–than he ever intended.

    God created sex. Doesn't that tell you a lot about who God really is? Among other things, it tells you that He is ingenious."

    I often us the middle paragraph to prove my point and most people agree. And then I share my own revelation that I realized one of the first commandments God ever gave to Adam and Eve besides not eating of the tree of knowledge of Good and Evil was to be fruitful and multiply. Now this is obviously before Sin entered the world–therefore God knew exactly how they were supposed to be fruitful and multiply. Having brought Eve to Adam as his wife, God set it up from the beginning what he wanted and how he wanted it. He knew it was one of his greatest gifts to us. Somewhere along the way Christians went down the road of saying sex is bad period unless in marriage. Don't talk about it, don't think about it, how dare you if you do. But we are literally designed to be sexual creatures, the only stipulation on that is that God wants us to wait until marriage because he knows how he designed sex and that it's not supposed to be just a physical satisfaction.

    So that's what I tell people more or less. I even have a friend recently at work who was curious and actually wanted to read some of the stories I had written because the one time she went out with my wife and I she was surprised to see a Preacher talk so openly about sex, and I told her then there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex and went into a little bit with her on why. Since then she was curious to know more so I sent her to the website.

    And unfortunately, some people are just not going get it. I'm not going to lie, some of the pictures they have been using for the stories lately are a little flashy so even I'm more cautious as to when I open the sight now but it doesn't mean I'm not ready to explain it if I have to.

    But as brave as you are here when you come read or when you masturbate, be that brave in spreading the positive message about sex. Heck, there is an about Marriage Heat section. Send them the link to that and they can read for themselves what it's all about. Don't shy away from the conversation, embrace it. And if they don't get it, they don't get it. Don't try to force them too. Just pray for them and move on, and keep enjoying the stories we all share to build each other up 🙂

    God bless, I hope this helps 🙂

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