Everyday Normal Sex is A – OK
I’m an avid MH reader and commenter but haven’t contributed much writing to the site (this is my 2nd post). One reason is that my sex life seems a bit vanilla compared to other writers. At the same time, I recognize that most are writing about special standout high-water moments of intimacy because frankly it’s more interesting and entertaining than “everyday” sex. So THIS is not a cruise romp or vacation escapade or a highway blow job. It’s just “everyday” sex – and these stories are needed too.
Earlier this week I returned from a 5-night business trip. Another guy was sharing the hotel room with me, so I knew I wouldn’t be getting phone sex or naked FaceTime or the like. In fact, I hardly had any sexual relief at all — only masturbating one time in the shower mid-trip. My first evening back, I was doing a lot of snuggling with the wife, and I needed a little extra TLC. She shared about a cable show that she got into while I was gone that had way more sex than normal in it, and she LIKED it (which is a good thing, because the wifey needs to be more open to sexual things in general) — her binge-watched two seasons of this show. I was getting a hard on as she was telling me this!
We retired to bed a bit earlier than normal, and we both knew this was intentional. (We have five kids who are in a tiring stage, so our sex life is mostly in survival mode right now.) But it’s nice to have these moments of intentionality when the stars (and our expectations) align properly.
We both stripped naked as we climbed into bed, which is wonderful. It’s an outward expression by my wife to say, “I’m all in tonight!” It does not take much for my plank to be solid, but it takes more time for her to warm up.
We begin by kissing, caressing, and sucking on her erect nipples. We’re facing each other on our sides in bed, but after retrieving some coconut oil, she turns on her back and pulls me on top of her. My kissing moves south, and I soon find her warm slit. I love giving her oral, but she’s not a big fan for some reason. She lets me lick her from time to time, but it’s been over seven years since she’s cum from oral. She seemed more willing to receive it this night, and I was hoping she would let herself go all the way… but no such luck tonight. She pulled me up, and I soon find her very wet pussy with my wanton member, and I slide it in slowly and deeply… one long penetration to begin.
We start kissing again, and I know she can taste her juices on my lips and tongue, and it’s a huge turn on whenever that happens. I rise above her and start a more rhythmic humping. I think she’s enjoying, but sometimes it’s a hard read. My wife has had issues with sex being uncomfortable at times and super pleasurable at other times. We had kids nearby, so being too audible and vocal was not an option. I could tell that I was filling with semen and likely wouldn’t last long tonight.
We switched into a spoon position. This gave be a chance to relax a bit, plus I could use my hands to massage her tits and nipples. Before I went back to the pussy, I allowed my dick’s aim to be a bit off. I didn’t go inside, but my penis head pressed firmly into her backdoor hole. It was an exquisite feeling. A place where I have jizzed on many of occasions. She has mixed feelings about anal play – kind of a love/hate vibe (and it’s all love/love in my book).
My hard dick slowly slid down from her hole and crept toward her pussy, and then I plunge inside. This soon turns into a full-on fucking. It started in the spoon position, but I was soon pushing her farther forward until she was 70% on her stomach, and I’m still straddling from behind and giving long full strokes.
I can then sense her hand stroking her clit as I keep drilling her. I’m quickly losing control and can’t hold on longer. With a few grunts, I begin unloading a few days of pent-up cum inside her pussy. She quickly assures me, “It’s okay, go for it.” This verbal affirmation has been added to our marriage heat because we do mostly crave simultaneous orgasms (and we have them 2/3 of the time), but it’s okay for one spouse to end a bit early.
After unloading my cum, I kept my penis inside of her – and I could feel her hand picking up the pace as she was climbing quickly toward her climax. She gave way to a powerful orgasm only 30 seconds later. It was glorious to feel her pulsing and quivering pussy as it held my slowly shrinking dick.
But my favorite part of the night came next. After some clean up, my wife backed right into a spoon position, still completely naked. This is quite unusual for her. She usually gets dressed quickly after clean up. She never sleeps naked on her accord. And we snuggled close and fell asleep naked this night. Of course, she put on a shirt and panties in the middle of the night. But I loved falling asleep skin-to-skin — the intimacy and the unspoken actions to show me that extra love and affection. It was good to be home!
PacMan
This was totally awesome! I loved every single part of this! I agree with you – I think the great majority of the stories on MH are realistic. I also agree that we usually write about our better moments – and not as much about what might be called "normal" less than favorite vanilla moments. I think a good number are open to it too.
Anyway, normal or not – your story really got to me! You set the situation so well. Past attitudes also were helpful in getting into your heat . I like everything you two did!
I can't wait to read more from you soon! I loved the way you described your orgasms – I'm so hard as I write this! And the spooning after fucking – so tender and peaceful. What a we come home! I've been on business trips too – sharing a room with a workmate that left little opportunity to masturbate – so I was right with you. God bless you both – and your family. LH
A wonderful story! You're very great at writing. You and your wife keep it up?
Great story Pacman and hot. Everyday sex is just as awesome as special occasion sex in my opinion. Alot of my stories are about everyday sex.
Like your wife I generally do not sleep naked. I prefer to wear a gown. Ben has always slept naked. However I do enjoy cuddling nude with Ben after fucking. The post sex skin to skin contact is so nice and intimate. Sometimes I fall asleep naked in his arms.
God bless and stay horny sir.
Thanks for sharing! While I don't understand your wife's reluctance to sleep naked (only because I personally love it a lot) I'm on the same page as her about oral as my husband did to me a few times and I've enjoyed it but I much prefer intercourse, in fact we both do. I guess we feel it's more "fulfilling" if you will. Bless!
I've had the same woman in my bed for almost forty years and can vividly recall some of the best times (which, by the way are mostly after the kids let), but cannot for the life of me remember any really bad sex with my Sweetie. Maybe my wife could remember a few really poor performances on my part, but bad sex?!
Thanks for all the words of encouragement! Truth be told, last night the wifey and I had an amazing night of sex, including TWO first time occurrences in our sex life! I started to type out the details in this comment thread, but became inspired to turn it into a full article. So I just wrote it and submitted it, so keep your eyes open for it. Have you ever had a night of sex so good that you find yourself masrurbating the next morning to the fresh memory made? That happened to me this morning!
To answer question – yes!
This morning – just the opposite order – I masturbated about 1:30am – then we both woke up horny and fucked out of control wild (not the normal) first thing! I think we are going at it again tonight. Something must be in our water ? I'm grateful. God bless you. LH
Can't wait to read your next story PacMan. This one was great! Your favorite part is my favorite too – snuggling close and falling asleep naked together. Ladies, that reassurance is a real confidence builder for your man.
Great story Pacman. In reguard to your question about masturbating after a night of great sex. I have done that many times. Of course just thinking about making love to my sweet Gina gets me hard, no matter what time of day it is.
My Gina is so beautiful and sensual that I often can't help myself. Sometimes I would be laying in bed enjoying a slow stroke as my Gina lay sleeping beside me. I would look over at her and at times find her awake with this beautiful smile on her face. What happens next varies, but is always hot and satisfying. I do love my sweet Gina so much!
Thanks for that, PacMan. I'm on the same page as you here. I think one of the ways porn has damaged us sexually is by causing us to despise the "vanilla" kind of sex. Now, don't get me wrong. There are times when I like sex to be wild. There are times when my wife wants it that way, too. But such times, for both of us, are the exception rather than the rule. We love nothing better than to relax naked in each other's arms, take each other slowly, caress, enjoy a 69 sometimes (but not every time), lap her pussy (most times), and culminate with intercourse. Most times, she goes on top and impales herself on my cock or else sits on the couch with her lets spread like an eagle's wings for me to take her while kneeling on the floor. But quite often, we just do missionary position and we both find that really satisfying and fulfilling. I love reading the wild stories, but I also love reading the so-called bland stories like yours, which appeal to something tender in my heart.