Hot Comments Bring Quick Sizzle

This story is about stating the obvious: Marriage Heat not only has the hottest stories promoting hot monogamy – it also has a great number of hot commentators!

And I think this is more valuable than you might already appreciate.

I want to bring two things into focus about this:

First – Just as the leadership of Marriage Heat does a wonderful job in setting guidelines, and lovingly upholding them for our edification – they also tirelessly keep updating the recent comments. Keeping us in touch. Thank you Marriage Heat!

Secondly – What is the benefit of these comments? Personally, I so enjoy the reactions and responses of the MH family. They often help contextualize and personalize each story in meaningful ways.

I love hearing comments from both husbands and wives about how a story touched them, brought a new idea, got them heated up – or added a new wrinkle to something they already do.

I love the honesty and frankness. There are so many things in the stories that are perhaps not part of our current experience. It is fun to learn more about how others tweak what was just written about. I am so often put in the mood for action as I read other’s comments – it leads to hot sex. Often the sex is soon after.

I like that some who (for whatever reason) choose not to write stories – still choose to give comments. They too, make a huge contribution to MH. More than they probably know.

For example: PacMan recently wrote a story. In it, he said that he was a commentator on MH – but not a frequent story contributor. Honestly, I was kind of surprised – because I see his name so often. It struck me anew, “the commentators make up a huge part of Marriage Heat.” I had thought that PacMan had written many stories because his writing had touched me – but came to realize that it was his comments that had touched me often.

So, my whole point in this MH family is: If you don’t feel motivated to write stories – Remember how much your comments can impact others! And comments don’t take much time or effort. They get published relatively quickly.

Don’t misunderstand me! I love so many of the stories – yet on occasion – a comment from a story touches me even deeper. The stories and the comments all come together in a wonderful and unique way at Marriage Heat!

We all mix together to make a sizzling, hot melody – praising God for the joys of sex in marriage! And hopefully we are stimulating one another to hot, monogamous sex with our spouses – or with our future spouses.

Which leads me to this final point – on which I plan to write more about: None of us have the perfect sex life. We all face trials and tribulations – some more, some less. Without promoting depression, perhaps we need to also include a few more of our struggles – and how we overcome them with wisdom by God’s grace.

Brothers and sisters who love swimming at Marriage heat – JUMP in the pool of commentators if you haven’t already. Even brief thoughts can touch a nerve – or make something turn hard☺

I want to say thank you to all for helping us in promoting our marriage heat.

Your partner in the sizzle,

LH

 

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17 replies
  1. Ben G. says:

    Hey LH! How are you doing my brother? I haven't been on MH much lately, but it is good to see an article by you. You may not realize it, but you have been a HUGE influence on Gina and I. Just want to say hi and thank you. God bless you brother. ( Pretty sure you will hear from Gina pretty soon. She can't not give her opinion. Believe me, I know. Lol)

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Ben, I am well! I thank you for asking. Wow! Your words mean so much to me! I want to say the same to you and Gina – I've received so much encouragement from you both. It seems like we have been friends for a long time! God bless you Ben. LH

  2. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    I couldn't agree more, brother! I love reading comments and I get really excited to read the feedback when my stories first get published. I like to comment on stories too. As you know, I love you telling your favorite parts, thank you everyone else as well for yours as those sweet words mean so much to me. God bless! <3

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Harper, I am a little disappointed. Why? I was hoping you actually "could agree more"! 🙂

      I'm the same – I love feedback too. Hopefully, not in some narcissistic way – but to see if something we write really touches other people in a meaningful way. When I see that that has happened – I'm so glad. I will not quit telling you my favorite parts from your stories! God bless you my Scandinavian sister! LH

    • Harper Shelby Thornton says:

      Aww that's so sweet! I'm actually Dutch and French by blood, but yes, my beloved hubby and I love the Nordic region, that's for sure! I don't think it's narcissistic to want feedback at all. I think it's good to want to know what people think, I think it's narcissistic to NOT want to know. Speaking of which, a new story's coming on Sunday, and I'm looking forward to your feedback! Blessings to you and your family! 😀

  3. ServantLeader says:

    So true LH: "None of us have the perfect sex life… perhaps we need to also include [in our stories] a few more of our struggles – and how we overcome them with wisdom by God’s grace." Sex is powerful. God designed the oneness of sex within the covenant of marriage to be a profound mystery. It can become easy to begin to worship sex, or your wife. Either can become an idol. If that is happening in your life, RECOGNIZE it, and repent. His grace never fails. And His wisdom is there for the asking.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      I hope many will ponder over your comment here ServantLeader. Keeping balance is a demonstration of God's grace. When you said what you did about wisdom – it makes me think of Proverbs 2. All of that comes from not only seeking wisdom, but finding it. Blessings brother. LH

  4. hornyGG says:

    LH, my dear friend. So good to see a story from you and I couldn't agree more. A hot story combined with some hot comments can really put some sizzle in your snizzle! Lol. I have read more than a few comments that have actually made me cum while jilling. ? God bless and stay horny always my friend.???

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Gina, you amaze me. I want to reply to you this way:

      So many of your comments are textbook for what I enjoy – seeing your response to a story, in a personal way, with thankfulness to God!

      For example, fresh off the press – you just did it again. And I quote a recent comment by hornyGG,

      "Loved this! Read this to my husband Ben last night ( I was horny) and surprise his dick got hard ( my plan all along! He he). Well we fucked and I had a couple intense orgasms before he dumped his balls inside me. So thank you!? God bless you and stay horny."

      Gina, thank you for the constant encouragement to serve God and enjoy His gifts. We see your joy here on MH – and we also know that you live in the real world of overcoming many things. Yet, your joy is always so evident and hopeful. That is a gift to us all. God bless you and Ben! LH

    • PacMan says:

      Yes! Spot on! I find myself looking at the "recent comments" section to even check out some of the newer, is an older posts. In rereading some of the comments is super hot! I will admit that a sizzling comment has caused me to cum on mare than one occasions!

  5. Lovinghusband says:

    In my opinion – you live up to your pen name on here all the time! I love everything you just said. I agree – more thoughtful comments will make MH even better. God bless TW. LH

  6. Juicy says:

    I have been an avid reader for some time now, I check at least once a day, given my "star rating" on many stories, reread some of my favorite ones but this is only my second comment and I have never written a submission. But I agree that the stories are so important but so are the comments. It is through these comments that a community has been built and there are many of you who have seemed to have really developed these anonymous relationships of mutual respect and support. And for those of you who have these "Marriage Heat" friendships, it is something to be admired. Through these friendships, you have shown how a married intimate relationship can be so multi faceted, so dynamic, offered advice and support on tough situations, given inspiration to dive deeper into marriage intimacy, educated many on what Biblical intimacy is and health issues, showed the evolution of married sex, cheered one another on when great sex happens, inspired bravery to try new things, and how to deeply enjoy our sexual relationship with our spouse and how important sex is to a marriage. I have taken so much good from this site and have had a revolution in my sex life since I stumbled upon Marriage Heat. I have tossed the idea of writing a story – both fiction and non fiction – but have yet to submit but maybe I will put my pen to paper.

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Juicy – your Marriage Heat analysis was not only very insightful – but was also some of the most lucid writing I've ever seen here.

      If you choose not to write a story – I want to ask you to please write more comments – as desire wells up in you to do so. We will all be the better for it. Oh, I really hope you feel a part to some of these friendships in some meaningful ways very soon!

      God bless you Juicy! LH

  7. PassionateForChrist says:

    Can't bring much sizzle to the MH mix but I just wish to say how grateful I am for all who have walked with me here on MH and that y'all have taken me up into your hearts and given me such great support and insight and love since God led me to MH. The most meaningful part to me of MH is, and always will be, the heart of love this community shares – the way Christ is being treasured by the ones I've come to know and the way His love is put into action in this MH family as we encourage one another, have compassion for one another, offer help to one another, comfort one another, sharpen one another and rejoice in God and His truth, goodness and grace with each other. This is what makes MH so unique, beautiful and special in my eyes. I feel greatly blessed to be a part of it and thank you all for having me here!! ? ?

  8. PacMan says:

    LH! What an honor to be mentioned in this article! I'm floored! This site is such an amazing community, and the vulnerability Of the posts in the comments is so valuable! There are too many people to name names, but the standout courage that many people have in putting private thoughts and sexual responses out there in the open, gives me and others courage to do the same. For those on the fence, just like LH said, dive in – even if it's just some simple encouragement, like "I loved this post." It's great to move from consumer to "participant" in the community. Eventually you might start putting your raw self out there. I remember the courage it took to post something very vulnerable like "Wow, this made my dick hard," or "I just jerked off while reading this." It's not something anyone needs to know about — so why share it? It's bc of what LH is saying. I knew how much I was getting out of the comments, and I knew I could contribute to that. As the writer of a post is putting their private moments out in public, it's encouraging to know that it is turning people on and stoking the flames. Let's keep encouraging each other! And the more we can open up and be raw in the comments, the more it will help reveal a part of your soul which in turn helps the whole community. I love this site and all the people here!!

    • Lovinghusband says:

      Thank you PacMan! Let's keep stoking the flames indeed! I love your comments. LH

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