Lingerie For Me
Warning! This is a long post and it is not my usual type of post. There is no foreplay, hardened anything, dirty talk, or explosive orgasms. It is, however, my most vulnerable submission to date. It is just one side of an issue and it is from my own experience and meant to be an encouragement, food for thought, and a window into another perspective.
As a little girl, I remember I desperately wanted the pretty little underwear that had the days of the week printed on them! I never got them. Nor did I get the “Wonder Woman” underwear either! And when I hit puberty and needed to wear a bra, I so wanted something cute with a little design on it. But I never got that either. It was always plain Jane underwear and bras. I hardly knew what other options were. My mother is a plain and practical undergarment kind of woman, so I was a little afraid to ask for something, well, not plain! What would she think of me? I mean, I am the pastor’s daughter!
As I got older and was in university, I would go out shopping with my girlfriends and at one point, we Christian girls wandered into a lingerie store. I wanted so badly to look at things and try them on but I was apprehensive for several reasons. Wasn’t this type of stuff only for those who were sexually active? How would people react to me knowing I was wearing sexy things underneath my clothes? (How would they even know?!) Is it ok for me to wear this type of stuff before I was married? Is it ok to freely act out this part of my sexuality? So much going on in my Christian head and without a lot of guidance or confidence to talk about it with someone.
Once, in my sophomore year, my roommate and I wandered into this same lingerie store and I saw this cute silky beige coppery coloured tank and short set that was on sale! It had the cutest satin braided straps and I so wanted to try it on and buy it. It was modest, and not at all sexy, not much different than wearing my oversized t-shirt to bed. My roommate saw that I was interested in it and encouraged me to try it on and so I did. I remember feeling how soft, smooth and silky it felt against my skin. I instantly felt feminine and like a woman, getting in touch with that private side of myself that was slowly maturing and becoming ready for marriage. Because she was my roommate, and best friend, I felt like I needed her approval because, well, we shared a room and I didn’t want to make her feel uncomfortable with wanting to wear something that fit into the lingerie category. She was all for it. She said it covered just as much of my body as our alma mater boxers and tank top sleepwear did! So I bought it!
I remember one night in our dorm room, when a whole bunch of gals were piled on our beds socializing, one girl noticed my silky outfit and she questioned me on it and wondered why I would wear such a thing in a dorm situation. Both my roommate and I defended it saying it was no different than most other girl’s night wear, it was just made out of satin and not cotton. But it left me feeling insecure and full of doubt. Was I wrong to want to wear this?
I don’t remember whatever became of that silky outfit. But I remember it, how it made me feel, and how it was a step in my budding sexuality. Because of the doubt put into my mind, it was a few years before I ventured into the pretty side of lingerie again. But I secretly kept looking at it in magazines, wanting to be a girl who wore that type of thing. And it wasn’t for a man that I wanted to wear it, but it was for me – for my femininity, for my sexuality.
When I was much more independent financially, I remember shopping by myself at a department store and slowly wandering over to the lingerie section of the store and trying to discretely look at some matching coloured bras and panties. At that time, I pretty much only had white bras and basic cotton panties, some of which had some colour but I wanted something soft, colourful, girly, and well, a bit sexy! Over the next little bit, I bought three sets of matching bra and panties – one burgundy, one lavender, and another a dark teal colour. I felt confident in them, as confident as girl with significant body issues could feel. I liked having this secret under my clothes!
Fast forward a bit to when I met my future husband. When we were engaged to be married, I wondered how this whole lingerie issue would factor in. At this time, while confident in who I was, I was not confident in my body at all. I was chubby, large chested, petite in height, never the girl that any guy asked out or was even remotely interested in, but I had this guy who loved me and soon, we were going to be having sex with one another and I felt like I was obligated to get lingerie, other than bras and panties. It was a nightmare for me. Nothing seemed to fit my ample bosoms and I felt I looked just awful in anything and everything. I was discouraged. I did have one thing that I felt pretty ok in – it was a white eyelet lace number, more pretty romantic than sexy, but I felt ok in it. On our wedding night, I put it on and came out and well, I got no reaction to it. I was disappointed because I had never worn something that was going to be removed soon by another person to see my naked body. I tried not to let it discourage me, but honestly, it did. Thankfully, it didn’t seem to affect the sex, not that I remember much about the details of the sex that night (I know, you would think I remember better!) but I do remember that I loved it and I wanted more. But after that night it was many months before I put on lingerie again.
Our first Valentines Day as a married couple I decided to make it as special as I could. I decorated the room and I decided that I was going to put this increasing insecurity about lingerie behind me and I decided to pull out that old burgundy satin bra and panty set and surprise my husband with it. I sprawled out on the bed, mustering what little confidence I had, trying to be alluring, wanting him to see me, admire me, want me, and enjoy me, so I called him in. I got hardly any reaction from him. He basically pounced on me, ripped off my bra and panties and never said a word about it. I was broken about it. I so wanted to be sexy and to feel sexy and I never felt that. I don’t want to seem like I am belittling my husband, I have a point, and I will get to it, if you bear with me.
After that experience, I was totally baffled and discouraged. I gave up with trying to feel sexy. I figured that I must not be the type of girl who gets to be sexy, that my body wasn’t made to be sexually attractive, that I just wasn’t the girl that someone would take a look at and think, “WOW! She’s attractive and sexy! Lucky guy that gets to be with her!” My body image was crumbling from its already delicate state and there seemed to be no one to rebuild it.
From then on, I figured that I wasn’t meant to try any more lingerie on. I would just stick to basic cotton although that didn’t help my self-image. When I bought bras, I stuck to white or flesh tones and panties, well they were cotton but I decided at least I would buy patterns and cute prints on them. If I didn’t have the sexy body to wear the sexy lingerie, goodness I could at least feel like I had fun with my underwear! So I had cats, teapots, giraffes, polka dots, swirls, and so on, on my basic cotton briefs. After a while, even though I like my whimsical prints, I wanted to feel pretty, not basic. Once, I snuck in a pair of lacy briefs in my underwear purchase and I would wear them off and on, and my husband never seemed to notice. Bit by bit, it took me down more. Why didn’t he notice? Did he notice? Did he not like it? Was I unattractive wearing it? Eventually that pair of lacy underwear made it to the back of the drawer, the elastics drying out and eventually they made their way to the garbage.
I didn’t feel like I could be a sexy woman, that I could ever attempt to wear lingerie again, that I wouldn’t look beautiful in it, that I wouldn’t cause my man to get weak in the knees and get a rise in his crotch. But yet I wanted to be that kind of woman, but I was so dejected and it showed in more ways than I probably understood. It was many years before I ever wore anything remotely sexy again.
Did my husband not like lingerie? Did he not like ME in lingerie? When a world portrays men as loving lingerie on their women, why did mine not like it on me? I asked him about it and he said, “I don’t really care about lingerie. I am just ripping it off anyway. Why spend money for something that really doesn’t get worn?” I thought to myself, he doesn’t get it and I can’t come up with a way for him to understand. So while all my girlfriends would go out and by special nighties, corsets, thongs, garters, and teddies for special occasions with their men, I never did – for YEARS, I never tried to be sexy or to wear anything sexy. Our sex life suffered for it. When we had sex, it was satisfying, but not fulfilling. It should have been passionate, but it was routine. There were times I wondered if my husband found me sexually attractive. Yes, he was having sex with me, but was it out of duty and out of sexual need for himself only? I knew he loved me, but I wanted more than just to be loved. I wanted to feel like the air he needed to breathe, that there was no one who could satisfy him like only I could.
By this time, I was grossly overweight and feeling unworthy and one day, I said, “No more!” and that was day I decided to start losing weight. First, for my physical health so that I would be around for my children for years to come. And wasn’t I supposed to be treating my body as a temple? Whatever that temple meant, I wasn’t treating my body as such. Second, for my mental health so that I would build better confidence in my mind, or rather feel confident that others would see me as worthy. And third, selfishly I hoped that it would make me more attractive. I have never felt attractive or pretty and was never the girl that guys asked out on dates. Well I did it! I lost the weight, well most of it! There will always be those extra baby weight pounds! And I have kept it off, except the boobs. They are still very ample, not that my husband is complaining!
Then a couple of years ago, my hormones began to shift and whether I liked it or not, I started to feel sexy. I don’t know how that happened – how does one feel sexy all of a sudden when one has never felt that way before? But how would my husband respond my sexy feelings about myself? Nevertheless, I began to buy sexy panties again. And I wore them. Did he notice? No. Did I notice? YES! I began to wear it for me, and for me alone. They made me feel beautiful, sexy, feminine, empowered. I gave up waiting for his approval and only relied on my own approval. I began to wander into lingerie stores again. I was a bit apprehensive but I slowly built up my confidence. Eventually, my husband did notice some of my pretty lacy panties and I would get a few positive comments. And you know what, it made me want more sexy things! I wondered if he would want to see me in something sexy. I bought a sexier bra and panty set and put it away for a special occasion. After a couple of months, I pulled out the set and wore it. We were out for a special occasion and the whole time, I hoped that when he took off my dress later that night, he would look at me and think, “WOW! That’s my wife! She looks amazingly sexy!” When he did take off my dress, he did pause and look, smiling, touching, approving and it was what I needed. It did come off pretty quickly and I wished it hadn’t, but seeing that he did enjoy seeing me in it, made me happy. That was a pivotal moment for me and I took on a mission to steadily collect sexy, pretty undergarments. No more cotton, unless it was to the gym!
All I wanted, for so many years, was to be affirmed as a female, as a woman, as a sexual being, and I never got that. It is vulnerable place to be to trust someone with your body, with your pleasure, your most private of desires and when someone’s reactions to it seem to fall short, it can cause so much heartache. When trying to explain the importance of wearing lingerie and how I hoped he would react to it, I came up with an analogy that seemed to make things click for him. I said to him, “Would you like it if I did a lap dance and strip tease for you?” He replied, “Yes!” I asked, “How long would you like that lap dance and strip tease to last? Ten seconds or ten minutes?” He replied, “Well of course ten minutes.” I explained, “Me wearing lingerie is MY version of a lap dance. I want it to last for ten minutes. Strip teasing for ten minutes for you is a turn on that builds. I want that same feeling of sexual tension. When you rip it off right away, you miss the fun. Look at me and take in the sight. What is showing? What isn’t showing? What can you do with what body parts are available? What mystery is there? Realize that I don’t wear it for you alone, but for me too. It isn’t about making YOU feel turned on, but it about making me feel sexy FOR ME AND YOU TOO!” And right then and there, a light bulb went on. All the years that he never noticed the lingerie, never took time to take it in, to enjoy the experience of it, to let it enhance our sex life, to affirm how it made me feel…….he finally got it.
Now I wear pretty, lacy, sexy, soft things everyday. It makes me feel so good! So confident and very sexual, which pays off for the both of us! I buy sexy lingerie to wear on occasion and dress up for role play! I don’t know how many of you have had similar experiences but I thought that I would share mine. Ladies, if you want to wear lingerie, wear it for you first. Revel in how it makes you feel. It will go from the silky soft fabric of your undergarment straight to your heart and mind and give you confidence. And your men will notice that! Men, please notice your wives when they do wear sexy things. I know for a lot of you, there is no issue with that! But perhaps you are one of those men who don’t care about lingerie or never notice or think it is a waste of money. Please open yourself up. Please encourage your wife. Express what you like to see her in. Please let her know how sexy she is and let her know often, not matter what she is wearing. Take your time to notice. She needs to know that no matter what woman ever crosses your path, whether it be in real life or in some sort of fantasy, it is her alone that occupies your desires and it is with her alone that you want to act them out with. She trusts you with her most intimate thoughts and feelings so handle it with care and encourage it to blossom more and more. It will pay off in your relationship like you would never believe. Enjoy the fact that your wife wants to be smokin’ hot for YOU and for you alone!
Thank you for being vulnerable and bringing attention to this important topic. When I was in high school, I wondered about what it would feel like to wear lingerie to bed or even sexier panties to school but only wore white cotton bikinis. I didn't have any sexual intentions but rather thought it would make me feel sexy and confident regardless if anyone ever saw them. However I worried what other people might think and it wasn't until later in college when I started. Now, I feel so confident with my body and love the feeling and attention I get from my husband when I wear sexy panties. I love going lingerie shopping and teasing my husband with pictures from the dressing room. It is important for women to remember to do what makes them feel comfortable because confidence is very sexy. It is equally important for men to compliment and appreciate our efforts. Take care!
Excellent post on many levels. My favorite part was the patience and perseverance you had with your husband. You figured out a clever way to help him understand. Kudos to you. Communication is the most important thing in marriage, but understanding is the most important part of communication!
Well done, my dear, women should and feel feminine – it's part of being a woman! Have you ever tried to dance, and put on a show for your husband? I've doing that since we were married and it drives my husband mad with desire! Your husband just might be driven mad with desire too! I guarantee you'll get a thrilling rush from it too – I certainly do! God bless!
Juicy
This was very special!
Your vulnerability was so important – and you let us all in "behind the curtain" to not only get to know you better – but to learn some important lessons for all of us (husbands and wives).
Our perceptions of ourselves are always incomplete and to some degree inaccurat – and maturity (especially spiritual maturity) helps us have practical and theoretical wisdom about this – that informs us, keeps us balanced, and even keeled.
You testimony is important in many respects.
There is such a thing as aesthetic beauty – and it is natural to aspire to it. We all have gifts in various degrees – and there is much subjectivity in this regard. Yet, I think there is something that that every spouse appreciates from their spouse (or should) – that we see the other always trying to adorn his or herself for the other. Not perfection, not spending crazy money – but making a real and noticeable effort to not only take care of themselves (and NOT just for longevity for the kids) – but to adorn whatever their beauty is. Of course, the priority is inner beauty always – but the exterior is not unimportant. To pretend the exterior maintenance is unimportant is like embracing the fallacy that all sex is only for procreation and not also for pleasure.
Juicy, by the grace of God – you left the fallacy that caring for and giving attention to your appearance was not important. You did something about it – and it has blessed you and your husband (with many other energy and sexual byproducts).
A biblical mindset about life is that we are saved by grace through faith in what Jesus accomplished on our behalf. We cannot earn the merit He earned to justify us. Sinners need a Savior and Jesus is the only Savior.
So we are saved by the effort of Jesus!
That being true, another important aspect of the Christian life is that growing in God's grace does not happen apart from Spirit empowered grace!
We are called to work. To put out effort (Ephesians 2:10; Philippians 2:12-13). Some of that effort is really hard – but God renews our strength. It takes fortitude and endurance – but the rewards are bountiful.
Juicy, I like that you are contented even for yourself to wear lingerie – you are not being insensitive to your husband in this either.
There are things that I do that make me feel sexy as a man – whether my wife comments or not.
I'll end with this
We need to be working – yes effort – within reasonable expectation – to make efforts to be our best for our spouses! The priority is inward – but we are being naive and foolish if we think we can neglect the outward appearance and think it means nothing. We need to stay in that pursuit of being our best for our spouse (not for the job, or company, or a high school reunion!).
Thank you Juicy for peeling back an important curtain.
I can say that I see my wife taking exquisite care of herself for over 30 years now – and it blesses me. I attempt to do the same for her. When I'm in front of the mirror – I want her to like what I'm working on!
I encourage the MH family to be in this quest. Don't ever forget the priority of the Word of God in making sure the inner man is nourished. If that isn't happening – nothing else really matters! LH
WOW! This is a post I have been jotting down for a while and the other day I just finally had the inspiration to put it all together. I was very surprised to see that since I had submitted it just a few days ago, that it was up and posted – it was still pending last night! Thank you all so much for the encouragement. I am still very much a "work in progress" in this area. I have always loved who I am, stood firm in my own creation, but have struggled to understand why others didn't always see me that way. The growing up years can be painful and any hurtful words or sour judgments do stay with you, even when you try and break the negative things that have bound you. Having always been told how great I was but then being rejected physically has been one of the most difficult things to try and overcome.
I will be honest, I am an averagely attractive woman, I have some parts of me that positively stand out and other parts that don't stand out as much. I have a curvy body and when I dress to accentuate it, I love how I look! I am an outgoing personality, but not overbearing. Happy, and not false. I love to pass on wisdom and soak up what I need to learn. I am a giving personality and can often be taken advantage of. But like most women, I have things about my body that I cringe at. I am learning each day to accept those cringe-worthy parts and wear them like trophies. But like most things that are difficult, it is two steps forward, one step back, bad days and good days. I am very sensitive to judgment towards my appearance but in the same manner, I also don't care what others think but care about what I think. So to embrace something that very much is about appearance, especially since wearing lingerie so incredibly exposing to both our bodies but also to our spirits, it is huge for me – like ginormous, gargantuan, tremendous, titanic, epic, you get the picture! The bedroom is one place where compliments needs to rain down like a waterfall crashing over you. Let our mouths open wide with endearments to our lovers for it will pay off in return!
Pricelessly and perfectly put, dearest Juicy!! Feeling like you wrote that comment out of my own heart – struggles, strengths and all! You must be kind of like my lost twin. lol Thank you for being here and being vocal and always being you!!! Know that you are so appreciated and cherished. Love you much!!
So well said Juicy!!!!!
Brilliant post. ??????
Juicy,
Bravo!!! This submission really struck a cord with me. I think I know why it got published so quickly, so many women can relate. I read this this morning, and having been dying to comment, but don't have access to my computer right now. So until then I want to say excellent post Juicy!
Loved the post juicy. Not much of a lingerie wearer myself. I prefer a t-shirt and lacey bikini panties (or non at all). I will wear occasionally, but it doesn't take much to get Trey's motor running. Later girl!
I am proud for you! Self-acceptance and self-worth are vital and I am so happy that shared this post.
Well said Mrs. Juicy! That was heart felt. Thank you for sharing it with us!
Luv that pic !!!!!!
Juicy,
Awesome post! This post was well written and obviously came from the heart. I comend you on your honesty and the wonderful inspiration you give to everyone here on MH. You are such a beautiful spirit and I for one just want to say THANK YOU.
God bless you my dear and stay beautiful and horny always.
hornyGG,
Thank you so much! I will tell you that when I found MH, I binge read everything, especially your stories! You have been an inspiration to me, and to others here too! Your sassy nature and your bold love are what love stories are made of. And thanks, I will stay horny 😉
I second this notion!
Oh and did you see my response to your statement and question on Mrs. Thornton's post we have been talking on by chance Mrs. Juicy?
JAM777,
Which story? I sometimes get turned around on this site with so many great stories and comments to follow! Blame it on the "Mommy Brain!"
No worries, I understand. It was about the whole bikini topic we were discussing on Mrs. Thornton's post. The one about Alaska.
We can transfer it over here too, since that post is pretty full…
Your post was "JAM777,
I hope you and Harper don't mind but I am going to weigh in on this. I have several points to consider. First, a woman can be sexy and desirable to a man no matter what she wears or what she does. For instance, I remember once when we were newly married, I was reaching back to put my hair up and my husband got turned on. Why? I was fully clothed but my back was arched causing my bosoms to push out as I was reaching back. It wasn't intentional, but I can see how he thought it was erotic. I didn't do it for attention, but I got it and all I was doing was something innocent.
Second, how should we dress as Christians. It is a hot debate and one to consider. A lot of people believe that we should dress modestly. But what does it look like to dress modestly? Some will only wear dresses, simple hair, no jewellery, etc and others may dress in the latest trends but still be just as covered. So you have opposite ends of the spectrum on that.
Third, we are told many times in the Bible that we are to judge based on the heart of a person on not anything else. So we shouldn't judge on appearance, and that doesn't just include clothing. Hard core Christians can be covered in tattoos, piercings, makeup, glitter, boldly dyed hair, flowing robes, cowboy boots, stiletto heels, clean shaven, bushy beards, tailored suits, Bohemian shirts, tight fitting gowns, uniforms, etc. So if we judge based on appearance, we are not basing a person on who they are.
Fourth, I understand where you are coming from. If a woman is in a bikini, it is difficult not to notice and possibly be turned on, but as I said in my first point, a woman could be fully clothed and still evoke sexual feelings from a man. I don't think there is anything wrong with wearing a bikini, but I do understand your point that her body is for her husband and if she is showing so much to the public, does it somehow take away from intimacy with her husband. But the same thing could be said of a man. Men wear swim trunks and that is little more than what a lot of men wear as boxers, so they are just as much exposed as they are in the bedroom. Plus, as a woman, I notice a man too in what he is wearing at the beach!
But if you are uncomfortable, then that is personal thing. I get your point and it is valid but know that just because a woman, or man, wears a bikini or bathing suit in a public setting, it doesn't mean that nothing is left for intimacy between the two of them. Just because a man can see a woman's cleavage, it doesn't mean that he knows how it feels, it tastes, it looks like completely bare, how she reacts to it being touched, etc.
I always joke with my husband, we are married, we aren't dead! I can freely look at a man or woman and notice what parts are attractive to me, but I don't react to it. I just say, "I am just enjoying God's creation!" And it's true – I don't let it go further than that. I think it is ok to notice and validate that, it just shouldn't go any further. It is all about the coveting, the lust for another that is dangerous, but you are the only one who can control you heart, with the Lord's help. Maybe you should expose yourself a little more to those areas so that you can adapt. Is it a self control issue?"
And then I said, "Some excellent points, Mrs. Juicy. I didn't think of serveral of some of those points. And I cover up with a shirt when I swim with ladies. I wouldn't hold ladies to a standard I don't follow myself." I would also like to add; do you ever feel like guys are being disrespectful when they see you in a bikini and they just stare at you or if they become aroused?
And so you all don't find it wrong or weird when a guy sees you in a bikini?
And thank you for sharing ladies! ?"
And I also said, "And what do you mean by, 'expose myself a little more to those areas?" I'm wondering what you had in mind for this…?
JAM777,
I will respond………I haven't forgotten! Just been busy and for the past few days I haven't been on MH as much because I am reducing some extracurricular time to "pray a circle" (book by Mark Batterson) around something in my life and taking time from those extra curriculars to pray and study. I will try and respond tonight!
No reason to apologize and I appreciate it! 🙂
Take as much time as you need!
JAM777,
OK! Phew! I think I can steal a few moments now! So you asked if I found it wrong or weird when a guy sees me in a bikini. The answer to that is, I have never worn a bikini in my entire life. As for arousal in seeing me in a bathing suit, I have never noticed if a man has gotten aroused, other than my husband. I don't think of myself in that way. I don't think that it is wrong to wear a bikini and I think it is ok to cover up if you want to. It all depends on your own comfort zone. No matter what I wear, I hope that a person sees me as a whole person and not objectify me. Objectifying a person can happen no matter what they wear and it really is up to the heart of the person in how they perceive and react to a person.
I think everyone wants to put their best foot forward in their appearance and wear things that flatter and compliment and for that effort, there will be attention from time to time, hopefully positive and uplifting compliments. If your intention is to always maximize attention to yourself for selfish and arrogant reasons, then perhaps you need a heart check as to why you wear something. So no matter what you wear, you should wear it for confidence and to feel good about yourself and to bring yourself a positive type of attention that allows you to shine for who you are as a whole, not just what you wear.
Attitude in what you wear is just as important, if not more so. If you have a presence that is "Look at me! Look at me!" then no matter it is you wear, you will project that type of arrogance in attention seeking. Confidence in what you wear is much different than that. It is natural and less self-conscious and you are more relaxed and comfortable in whatever you wear and you shine through and what you wear is just bonus.
What I was thinking about "exposing yourself in those areas" was along the lines of "climatizing" yourself to it. For example, if you did go to a public swim area, go for a short time, don't focus on what everyone is wearing. Focus on the scene, the fun, the smells, the socialization – make a conscious effort in not looking. When you feel that you are a limit and can't control not looking, then leave the situation and try again another time. Keep at it until you feel comfortable. But I want you to know that it is ok to look. It isn't wrong to notice someone attractive or beautiful to you, but it is how you handle it. What I am trying to convey is you will always encounter women and what they wear. Sometimes you are going to find that a woman is sexy and attractive in what she is wearing. It could be slimming jeans, a dress for a formal event, her makeup, how she wears her hair, etc. I think men are wired to find all sorts of things attractive about a woman, just as we women are wired to feel the same towards a man. There is a saying "A well tailored suit to women is what lingerie in to men." So this proves that a well covered man is just as sexy as an exposed man is in his bathing suit.
Thank you for responding Mrs. Juicy! I quite agree with you about people and what they wear not being as important as their heart.
And oh okay, I get what you mean
So I should be around other ladies who are half naked in order to not allow it to mess with me?
And it is bad Mrs. Juicy… I get aroused by their cleavage, their legs, and their butts…
I mean it wouldnt be right if I knew you and your family and we all went swimming, I saw you a bikini and become aroused by it, would it?
Here's the comment of yours, Juicy, that Jam777 had a follow-up question on:
https://marriageheat.com/2016/09/06/white-loveland-alaska/#comment-19941
Sorry, I kind of took over the comment section over there… no wonder you lost track of it 😉 Love you bunches, Juicy!! <33 God bless!
Gracie,
My husband likes the t-shirt and shorts look too! He would really love if I dressed with a ball cap, ponytail through the back, t-shirt and shorts/jeans – I guess it is a throw back to a high school look?! One day when I was gardening, he drove into the driveway and I was wearing denim cut offs, a tattoo graffiti t-shirt, sun hat, tall rubber boots and gardening gloves and when he emerged from his car, well lets just say one certain body part emerged first! Full of dirt and sweaty and you would think I was some sort of Victoria's Secret model!!!
And my husband has also expressed the same sentiment as your husband – he loves the naked body and that is what he wants most! He always loves skin to skin contact between us. But he is learning the thrills of the lingerie. The other night, after the kiddos when to bed, we were able to stay up late because of a holiday the next day, anyway, I took off my clothes and he saw me in my black bra and black thong and well lets say, the living room saw a whole lot of action that night! I would love to be my husband for a day so that I could really understand how he thinks about my body – I mean really, he likes the things I think are not so attractive?! I don't know if I buy it!
Gracie, thanks for all your wonderful comments and communication with me! I really enjoy being able to chat with you and the other members here. I really find a community and I hope that it continues on with positivity and encouragement for years to come. Life is always in flux and I have shifted in areas of my life that I want to improve in and be more involved in. I want to serve and be involved with things that bring me joy and I feel that MH is bringing me some extra joy in my life. I love learning and love contributing! I will hopefully get some more inspiration for submissions, I do have two more coming this month, but after that, well me and my husband will have to work on material!
My husband rarely sees me after a workout but he sure does love the workout gear on me! Seriously! Lycra and spandex clinging to every (in my opinion) ungodly place possible and not an extra stitch of fabric to hide anything! But he loves it – does he really or does he just say he does!?
Yeah for action over the weekend! And it seems that we are lingerie dopplegangers too!
I love what you said Juicy – I love seeing my wife in the same.
But, I must correct you on one important point.
And it has to do with your overall outlook on sexuality. Since God created all of the places that the Lycra and spandex cling to on your body – I like to think it is better stated as "every godly place possible" – not "ungodly".
You get my point with a smile (I hope). God bless you. LH
I agree. I have no doubt you beautiful no matter what Mrs. Juicy! I hope that isn't inappropriate…!
And I have no doubt I would see my wife as beautiful no matter what! From her in her wedding dress, to giving birth to our first child, to her picking up and all messy/dirty from looking after the children, and to she is old and grey. She is beautiful and only gets more beautiful day after day, year after year; from healthy to sickly; always now and forever; shining with a beauty unending! 🙂
I do believe Mr. Juicy would be agree emphatically!!!
Loom at your stories! Sure the sex is beautiful, but I see a love deeper even than that! So don't let it mess with you and please don't doubt that Mrs. Juicy!!!
LH,
Point taken 🙂
I will make more of an effort to leave my wife's sexy undergarments on for a longer period of time. You have reminded me of her need to feel sexy and my need to honor that