The elusive g-spot O
My desire to experience a g-spot orgasm has intensified throughout my sexually awakened years. My body craves the waves of pleasure that I know await me if I can acquire the techniques and patience to finger myself to g-spot orgasm. I try inserting 1 finger then another into my hot slit. I rub and tug at that elusive little spongy area up inside. But no matter how hard or soft I press. No matter how slow or fast I work it, the orgasm eludes me and I am left to suffice with a clit stimulated explosion that send my body in rigid spasms. But I am persistent and I will keep trying, and rubbing, and tugging. I am determined to succeed in this new area of sensuality. My body is to be celebrated and enjoy. Any tips?
Keep trying girlfriend, it is well worth it. Believe me!!!
Alicia, have you ever made yourself "squirt" from a self-induced g-spot O?
That's an amazing experience.
Yes, I actually have occasionally. My g-spot orgasms take a little longer to achieve than my clitorial orgasms and are quite intense. That's not to say my clitorial orgasms are not intense. I have had many mind blowing orgasms during clit play as well. .Thanks for asking. Later.
Is there a technique to induce squirting?
Now that would make an inspirational story!
I agree. I didn't have my g-spot orgasms until I started having sex (with my husband, of course). Clitoris orgasms are great as well, and you might need to take your mind to "sexy territory" as you normally would masturbating. Maybe try stimulation your clitoris and g-spot at the same time, and see what results you get – take it from me, it's INTENSE!
Are you able to tell the difference from them Mrs. Thornton?
To be honest, I get so lost in my orgasms that I don't pay attention. Maybe I could, I don't know 🙂
Yeah, that makes sense… kind of "busy"…. lol
Harper, you are a woman who has been married many, many years and who seems to be one of the dedicated elders of this site, with many life experiences. You have a lot of respect in this forum. In all of the stories you have written I never had the impression that you masturbate much, or at least you have never mentioned it. I, and I am sure others, are interested: do you have any masturbation stories to share? If not, at least would you reveal how often you still do masturbate? It could be healthy and reassuring to others. And, I am not sure by your answer above, but have you been able to squirt? For anyone else, do most g-spot orgasms involve squirting? My wife has never squirted, but I am confident that she is having frequent g-spot orgasms since I have learned to stimulate the pronounced "ridge" inside her pussy with her favorite dildo. Lots of questions, but any response welcome. This is a healthy forum for learning and discussion.
I haven't masturbated since our wedding night. Why? I didn't need too. We've always had sex at LEASE 3 times a week. I never squirted, but that doesn't mean my orgasms were not intense. Also, after experiencing orgasm through sex, for me, I didn't want to go back because orgasms from sex were way better 🙂 Same for my husband. But that doesn't mean I think it's wrong, I most certainly don't. We just felt we didn't need to.
LEAST* sorry about the typo
Hating to put someone else on the spot without sharing myself, I will soon post a story about the first time that I masturbated for my wife. It was very intense. I am 52 years old and my wife and I have been married for nearly 30 years, but I would say that I still masturbate once a week, usually in the shower to release some sexual tension when my wife's sex drive does not match my own. If my wife is out of town for business or other reasons, I usually masturbate each night, just to help me sleep because I miss her company. I will let my wife know every time that I jerk off so that we have no secrets.
Hello all, not new but have never posted or replied to any posts. I felt, after reading this,that it might be the right time. I've read several in regards to G Spot orgasms and squirting and thought I would tell you all what's worked for my wife and I. First, ladies, please pee first. Can't stress this enough. The single biggest position that has worked for us is this. Men lay on your back on your bed, normal position, have your wife straddle your face while facing the head board and using it for support. Ladies you will need to arch your back. As you start to perform oral on her clit, insert your middle or index finger into your wife, with the pad of your finger facing toward her front. Use solid pressure upward, penetrating her, and with that pressure upward rub your finger on the front wall.. If you alternate between solid up ward pressure and rubbing on the front wall, using different speeds and penetration while working her clit with your tongue, You may find what you are looking for. It works almost every time for us. But, everyone is different. Enjoy trying to find it! We did! Just know that it can, at times, get messy. The Key for us is that it takes more than one type of stimulation. As in, just penetration and doing the cliche "come here" with your finger never worked for us. It didn't work until we did what I discribed above. Have fun!