To My Future Sweetheart
I wanted to formally introduce myself after finding out about this site a few months ago. I’m 21 years old, a Christian and single. It hasn’t been easy with understanding why I have sexual fantasies throughout my life. After giving my life to Christ, it’s as if my desires for sexual intimacy increased. Before it all was for selfish ambition because in my previous relationships, but now I truly have a heart to serve my future husband (who ever he may be). I have a desire to be a helpmeet to him, to aid him in walking toward the purpose God has for us and make an impact in the Kingdom with whatever God has us both doing. I know I have more years ahead of me and I’m learning to enjoy my single season, so I’ll be walking in purpose until the time comes for he and I to meet.
So to my sweetheart, whoever you are, wherever you may be, I want to say I love you immensely. I haven’t even met you yet and I already feel an attachment to you. I feel you’re my missing piece, my other half. I pray for your protection from counterfeits, your continuous growth in the Lord and that you know what you’re called to do. I think you’re amazing, every flaw you hate I love. Any thought of you being inadequate is only vapor. Remember what God, our Abba Father thinks of you. He sees you as made in His image, complete in Him, fearfully and wonderfully made. Don’t down yourself, you have so much in you to sit and allow for the enemy to belittle you. I’m thankful for you continuing to grow, I’ve been told that you’re intelligent and very handsome so I’m already excited to pour my love on you. Be prepared because marrying me comes with hundreds of hugs, thousand of kisses, millions of ‘I love you’s’ and I’ll mean every word of affirmation I speak to you. I’ve imagined making love with you and it only makes my heart grow stronger to make your manly heart sing.
I imagine waking up next to you, wrapped up in your arms. I feel you inhale and exhale while resting my head on your chest. I look up at you trying not to awake you, its a joy watching you sleep. Words can’t describe how sweet you look. The world I knew expanded after my adventures with you. God made you so beautifully and crafted every part of you intentionally.
I kiss your chest lightly where your heart lies, your cologne from last night greeted my nostrils and made my soul want to hold you tighter. I give trails of light kisses all over your chest and nuzzled my nose on your chest, loving every second of being in your embrace. Being connected to you in every aspect-emotionally, spiritually, mentally, physically- is a feeling that only comes after waiting. God knew exactly what He was doing when connecting us together at the right timing. I won’t rush Him when it comes to preparing you for me and me for you. Know that I’m here, you may not know me yet, and I don’t know you, but that won’t stop me from waiting.
For our marriage, our family, our hardships, our victories and everything in between, it will be worth it, my sweetheart.
So beautifully written! Thank you for sharing this with us!
As a single guy, the thought of my future wife serving the Lord where she is at, while she is waiting for the Lord to bring us together is such a beautiful and attractive quality!
Your words tug at the old heart strings, well done!
You are going to make a beautiful and blessed wife for that special guy God has planned for you!
Keep using your time of singleness for preparation and a time to serve in a way that only a single lady can! 🙂
Praying for you!
This just put a smile on my face. What you described is true love, you're on the right track! Praying for you. God Bless
Beautiful writing! I feel your excitement!
It will be worth it dear – just be patient 🙂 May God keep you