Masturbating for My Wife

I remember the first time that I masturbated.  I was 15 years old and I was alone in a bedroom at my grandmother’s home.  I had no idea what I was doing other than it felt good.  My cock was hard and it felt good to touch it.  I kept touching and rubbing it until suddenly I felt a welling up inside me and cum shot everywhere.  It felt awesome but I had no idea what I had done.  I liked it.  As a teenager, I spent a lot of time masturbating as I had a lot of sexual energy.

For the first several years of marriage, I masturbated very infrequently.  There was one summer that I had to work away from my family during the week, so there was plenty of jerking off during the week, but that was about it.   As the years went by and past our 20 year anniversary, I began to masturbate more often, as we often were too busy for each other to be as intimate as I wanted.  Several years ago, however, I began to take an interest in my wife’s masturbation history.  She had started masturbating much younger than I had, but she was very reluctant to talk about it and claimed that she did not do it anymore after marriage.

As part of this, I started to want to explore masturbation as part of our mutual sexual lives, so I suggested to her that if it might help to break the ice, I wanted to masturbate for her to watch.   She reluctantly agreed.  So, on a fateful night several years ago, we climbed into bed and began to become intimate.  We kissed each other gently, touching each other, rubbing each other, stripping off our clothes and exposing each other openly.  I then told her that I wanted to do something that no one else had ever seen.  I grabbed some lube that we have for the toys and I liberally applied it to my stiff cock.   She sat facing me as I lay in a partially reclined position, stroking my dick with my right hand and looking at my beautiful wife.  It quickly became very intimate.  I began to move my hand in different ways, ways that I had never thought about but which were stimulating.  My cock grew even harder and my pace quickened.  I realized that I was showing her how I had pleased myself for years and years…moving with an urgency and need but laid bare before her.  She watched my movements and the increasing urgency.  At the same time, it was almost as if my soul was totally naked before her, my body responding to my own touch.  Just like that first night, I felt the surge in my loins, crossing over the threshhold from which there is no return.  I began to pump harder and pushed my cock down.  At that moment, a huge gush of cum streamed out of my cock, shooting into the air and landing back onto my stomach and chest.  I continued to pump and milk my cock as the last bits of cum dribbled from my swollen cock head.

My wife looked at me with a look of love and a smile.  At that moment, we knew and trusted each other just a little more than we had 5 minutes before. It took her several years before she could relax enough to do the same, but it did not matter.  The step I took that night was a step of trust, of honesty, and a sealing moment of intimacy.  I highly recommend it.

 

 

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27 replies
  1. Lovingcouple920 says:

    Thank you for sharing your story. I agree, it is very hot and intimate to watch my husband masturbate. Sometimes I can't help myself and I jump in to help but at the very least it is a turn on to talk dirty to him and watch him cum all ove himself. I think his favorite is to jerk off in front of a mirror as I kneel down so he can cum all over my tits and face.

  2. Lovinghusband says:

    Happy Husband,

    I'm so grateful for the place that my wife and I have come in regards to comfortableness in masturbating in front of each other. For us, we don't do it frequently together at the same time. But, when we do – it is a "destination"! We go there because it is so hot and satisfying. On those nights, we don't look at each other and say, "I know we are doing this, but it is not as good as fucking". We know that if we could only do one thing ever – it would be fucking like rabbits! But, we masturbate in front of each other as part of the spicy variation in our lives together. Even as I write this – I'm thinking we will be heading to this destination again soon!

    Some of our favorite moments have been while driving (make sure you have the right stuff to clean up with). One time on a long trip – I was barely dry enough to enter into the home of the people hosting us for dinner. I underwear was soaked! I enjoy watching her moments before she cums – seeing her tighten, arch her back, then explode. She enjoys having her hand on my balls – feeling them as the cum shoots out. It is a huge turn on for me watching her watch my cum shoot out. To see the focus of her eye at that moment that I'm so excited.

    Yes, a destination for us soon!!! God bless you both. LH

  3. Happy Husband says:

    For any spouse out there, even those who don't masturbate any more post-marriage, (I am talking to you, Harper!), I really recommend the experience of doing this for your spouse. It is both exposing and erotic.

  4. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    That's not very nice, Happy Husband. With all due respect, we're not you. I mentioned several times that there hasn't been a need for us to, because we have so much sex! Orgasms from sex are the best for us! Every couple is different. Also, my hubby likes it when I come on his back when I give a "wet massage" with my lady place. That way, he can feel as well as hear me cum while I relax his muscles. I'd simply rather be filled with my husband's cock that's all. That's us, it's our preference, nothing more. God bless!

  5. Happy Husband says:

    I am sorry if I offended you, Harper! I was only kidding you and should not have gone there. Everyone has their preferences and those should be respected and did not mean to be anything but playful. For those who are entertaining the thought, however, I highly recommend and hope that my post may lend some encouragement.

  6. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    @Happy Husband Oh honey, sorry! I meant to be humorous myself, maybe I should've typed if differently. Where should I not have gone? I know you were playing, sorry. I like stories about masturbation between couples, it's just that we prefer intercourse. Blessings, hun

  7. Happy Husband says:

    Harper, I guess it was your comment that you and your husband were not me and my wife. It is a point well taken and I realized that I was wrong for calling you out, even if it was playful. I thought about how I would feel if someone called me or my wife to try something we are not inclined to do, such as anal play. With that said, if the thought ever enters your mind to try it, I highly recommend mutual marital masturbation as a change up to your married sexual adventures. However, from your wonderful stories it is easy to see that you and your husband are in a great place as a couple and need no suggestions from me! I know that despite some of our growth, my wife and I are far from perfect in our relationship and most of that centers on our greatly mismatched sexual drives. I am probably hypersexual, while I would characterize her as mildly interested. It is a struggle that has moments of unity with longer periods of tension. To put it blunty, we are much closer when we are screwing, and I guess that is my weakness.

  8. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Your sexual nature is not a weakness at all! Yeah, my hubby & I never do anal play either, we are kind of repulsed by that (no offense) but we don't think any less of anyone who does enjoy it, that's what they like 🙂 I'm so glad you think my stories are wonderful, there's plenty more where that came from 🙂 Yes, we're in a wonderful place, we love sex despite our age, we are still "hypersexual" as you put it! 😀 I am sorry, however, that your wife doesn't see it like that and that your sex drives are mismatched. It's normal to feel close when you're having sex – women need to feel loved to have sex and men feel loved by having sex. Even women can feel close while making love to their husbands – I do! We had lots of variety over the years in our marriage, and sex never gets old for us. God bless!

  9. Happy Husband says:

    Harper, thanks for your note. I just read one of your posts more carefully. What do you mean by you giving your husband a "wet massage" and "coming on his back"? Are you meaning that you grind yourself to orgasm while he is lying face down? That sounds amazingly erotic and I think a lot of us would like to hear a lot more about that, if it is not too intrusive!

  10. ArtRutherford says:

    I love to masturbate for/with my wife. I've been masturbating for years. Of course, it is not as good as PIV or Oral, but, never-the-less, it is fun and very pleasurable.

  11. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Hello! Mind me asking which story you were referring to, cause there's a few of them with the "wet massage". Of course it's not intrusive, this is what this site's all about! 😀 Yes, I pretty much do that, I grind on his lower back, or butt while he's laying face down, and I cum doing it! There will be more stories including wet massages, I can tell you that!

  12. Happy Husband says:

    Harper, I just read your post Fun in the Fjords and now have a better idea of how you do it. To be honest, it sounds like you are masturbating with the back of your husband's body, which is really, really, really erotic. You can call it lovemaking too, which is why married sex is so awesome, in that nothing is forbidden in the marriage bed and God has blessed us with so many ways to express our love for our spouse and our marriages. Have a blessed day!

  13. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Yeah, that's how Lovinghusband put it too. It certainly is erotic and I love listening to my hubby enjoying it! He loves it! Thank you and have a blesses day yourself, hun!

  14. Lovinghusband says:

    Hi Harper and Happy Husband,

    I think many of us put our own special names on sex acts we do

    When my wife "wet massages" or "masturbates" on or against me – it drives me wild!

    I often say when underneath her wet pussy, "I just want to lay passive as you masturbate (or wet massage) against my face – be as rough on my face as you want! I want you to use my face as your sex toy! I want your cunt to fuck my face!"

    My wife then goes crazy – gyrating all over me. She does the same humping my butt, and on my back! Her pussy is dripping like a faucet – and I so love her reckless abandon as she does it!

    While she is doing it (anywhere but my face – because I can't speak when she is doing it on my mouth) – I like to tell her she "is being so naughty and I love it". I say "masturbate that pussy! Cum hard on me baby! Make me so wet! I want to be covered with your pussy cum!"

    As you can see – this is one of my favorites – though we don't do it too often. But, writing about it now – very soon.

    So, whatever we choose to call it – it is totally delicious! God bless you both – and your spouses. LH

  15. Lovinghusband says:

    Harper, so funny! I commented before seeing you mentioned me in your comment. That is hilarious and fun! So amazing that your description of pleasing your husband like that makes me make that connection with my wife doing the exact same thing! I guess it is because we are the only two on here that specifically mention this very pleasurable experience!

    I don't know about you two – but we'll be doing it very soon! I'll report back! Yes! Happy New Year Harper. LH

  16. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    I'll be looking forward to it! Yes, my husband says things while I do it to him too! He moans, and says things like "oh yes, baby" or "oh yes sugar" and then lets out loud yeses while I'm cumming! How have you been?

  17. Lovinghusband says:

    Harper, I am very well thank you! We had a wonderful time at Christmas with family – all the kids, and some family from out of town. Always great to be focused on the gift of our Savior.

    Also, I moan, too when my wife is all over me with her pussy.

    Happy Husband, I highly recommend that you request it of your wife. Give her absolute freedom to put her "mark" on you in every nook and cranny of your body. Tell her you want to feel her wetness all over – that you want to smell like her pussy in the morning. If you wants the sheets cleaned – offer to do it. But, a night of being saturated by her pussy will be a treat you will want to experience again and again. Perhaps you can come up with a nickname.

    Here are a few off of the top of my crazy head: "Pussy-Dipping"; "Can't Wait for Cunt Wet"; "Pussy Massager"; "The Pussy Masseuse On the Loose"; and "Deep-Tissue Pussy Therapist".

    As you can tell…I love this subject! LH

  18. Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    I'm so glad you are well, brother, Praise the Lord! I, too, had a wonderful Christmas with some wonderful family members. We're in Greenland again this year and Christmas was amazing! We staying until the end of January, with my cousin Clara and her family. It's her birthday on the 12th and on January 25th it's their 38th wedding anniversary! And for that we're going to an ABBA concert! Can't wait! Have you been to any concerts like that?

  19. Happy Husband says:

    I have never said no to a sexual request from my wife in our 29 years of marriage, so I am sure that I would be up for the wet pussy massage if she wanted to do it. In fact, I cannot wait to get home to describe it to her.

  20. John Thompson says:

    We've found masturbation to still be important in married life. We were virgins when we married, and on our honeymoon as we lay naked in bed together after discovering sex, my wife asked me how a man masturbates. Naturally I had a huge stiff erection and I demonstrated, splashing my semen up my chest. Doing that gave us a freedom to be sexually open. Now, years later, if I'm in the mood for sex but she's not, she's happy for me to masturbate in bed next to her. While I do she excites me by caressing my genitals, and I get pleasure from running my spare hand over her naked body. She too knows I like to watch her masturbate and sometimes she fingers herself to a climax before we have sex. She says it makes the orgasm i then give her much better! So there's a place for masturbation in a married sex life.

  21. Brown Guy says:

    In our case (married couple, 25 years), we're usually masturbating each other. I feel I'm better (and less inhibited) in stimulating my wife to climax (often with a good dose of lube and my hands). She does it for me at times too.

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