Long Distance Masturbator

Hi y’all! I’m Taylor, and I am newly registered, but a long time reader of Marriage Heat I love getting on here and reading everyone’s amazing sex positive marriage (or single masturbation stories)! A bit about me, I am 31, married 5 years to a wonderful husband, mother of one and pregnant with #2. My husband works for a pharmaceutical company and it keeps him on the road a LOT. Needless to say, we spend a lot of time masturbating over the phone together or using Skype is some really devious and naughty ways.

For the first year of marriage I just used my hands. It had worked for me since I was pretty young, and in college I had experimented a bit with my hairbrush, my roommate’s electric tooth brush (please don’t judge, I know! Its so gross that I did that), and even a banana. Super cliche I know. But overall, my hands got the job done pretty darn well.

While we were dating my hubby gifted me a bullet vibe and a small dildo. Sometimes, when we were getting hot and heavy, we would stop our make out session, run home, call each other up, and have phone sex. Not the best strategy to keep from having sex, but it worked for us. The closest we came to premarital sex was him holding the bullet vibe against my panties under my skirt once. All in all, a pretty solid record. But I digress.

After we got married, I tossed those tools in the trash, thinking that I was done with masturbating. But about six months in, my husband got his current job, and was traveling three or four days a week. Which is waaaay too long for me to go. So we went back to phone sex.

From phone sex, we graduated to Skype sex, which was much more satisfying. I love watching him react to seeing me. And I love watching him stroke himself, knowing that I was the reason why, and that me, not some porno, was going to get him off and make his cum fly all over his gorgeous chest. I was NOT going to let my man feel like he needed some porn bimbo to get himself off.

I take pride in staying fit for him, and I always try to wear something sexy as often as I can. Thankfully he loves to see me in white cotton bikini briefs and a loose Target t-shirt. I have one that says “wife” and another that says “Namaste in bed.” They are thin and soft, and when I go bra-less, they drive him nuts. It’s awesome. Me and Target, we have a great deal worked out. I don’t have to wear uncomfortable sexy clothes very often, and I still get him raging hard.

Anyway, for V-Day since he was gone on the road, he bought me a sex toy to help with our skype-ventures. Two years ago, I bought him a fleshlight, the Stoya and Forbidden Stoya version, to be most like me. He loved it. The problem was that I can’t see his cock anymore which really bums me out. I am pretty visual for a gal, and I loved watching what I was doing to him. He got to watch me with my rabbit, but I didn’t get to watch him with his Stoya fleshlight.

So for Christmas, we decided to look into teledildonics. Basically, it is a really cool new technology where you link a male and female sex toy, and they give feedback to each other, so it is like being able to have virtual sex. Let me tell you. This changed everything. Seriously the best thing ever to have happen to married couples who have to live with routine separation.

We can even use it during the day when we are alone, and basically program a sex session that we can send each other. So, if and when I am feeling frisky during the day, and J is at work or on the road, I can play with my half of the toy, and then “send” him the sex I just had with myself, so he can feel each and every stroke and suck and thrust I gave my wet, pregnant pussy. It is amazing.

And when he is horny in another time zone and I am asleep or busy with our 2 year old, he can fuck that toy and let me feel it later. It almost makes up for me not being able to see him stroke his hard member. I do have a new rule though lately. When we are on skype he has to pull out to cum so I can see it.

Last Wednesday, I was in a really bad mood. My husband was in Charlotte, my two year old is two (you know exactly what I mean), and I am just exiting the first trimester, so I am emotional, bloaty, still throwing up sometimes, and my bras and favorite leggings don’t fit anymore. Add to that my sex drive, which is emerging from the last two and a half months like a bear from hibernation. Anything even faintly phallic soaks my panties and makes my nipples pop like the done button on a Thanksgiving turkey.

I am not kidding. Yesterday I was at Aldi trying to pick out cucumbers and turned into a slutty mess in the produce aisle. I am telling you, this pregnancy will be the death of me. Where was I?

Ah Wednesday. I was in a mood like only a pregnant woman can be. My two year old had just finally stopped fighting sleep and I was sitting in the kitchen exhausted, fuming for no particular reason, sweaty (because hormones), and bra-less. My “Wife” shirt was clinging to my sweaty body, stretched tight across my newly huge boobs, and my hair was plastered to my damp forehead. I was in a word, a mess. My phone buzzed, and J’s message just said: “figure you aren’t in the mood to talk much tonight, but I sent you a ‘special package’ to keep your loins occupied.” I was not about to pass up masturbating, so I grabbed my toy and dropped my panties. I walked bottomless to the couch, spread my legs as far as they could go, and used my phone to load up his “package.” Oh. My. Gosh. I haven’t cum like that in ages. After finishing his 10 minute “gift.” I texted him a thank you picture.

“Here is one for your butt now babe.” I don’t know how he managed to get hard again already, but I loaded up the next one and started up again. It was exactly what I needed. He knew how to make me cum, programmed a package for me, and didn’t even expect a skype session that night. It was exactly what I needed. I am telling you, teledildonics is amazing for the long distance marriage. Now I am going to have to go make one for J.

Love,

Taylor

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12 replies
  1. copen1
    copen1 says:

    Holy Smokes taytay! If there were a Marriage Heat movie, this would be the first scene: "Ah Wednesday. I was in a mood like only a pregnant woman can be. My two year old had just finally stopped fighting sleep and I was sitting in the kitchen exhausted, fuming for no particular reason, sweaty (because hormones), and bra-less. My “Wife” shirt was clinging to my sweaty body, stretched tight across my newly huge boobs, and my hair was plastered to my damp forehead. I was in a word, a mess. My phone buzzed, and J’s message just said: “figure you aren’t in the mood to talk much tonight, but I sent you a ‘special package’ to keep your loins occupied.” I was not about to pass up masturbating, so I grabbed my toy and dropped my panties. I walked bottomless to the couch, spread my legs as far as they could go, and used my phone to load up his “package.” Oh. My. Gosh. I haven’t cum like that in ages. After finishing his 10 minute “gift.” I texted him a thank you picture."

  2. OneCouple
    OneCouple says:

    Thank you for this story TayTay, it immediately got my attention as my wife and I also just registered after I discovered MH some time ago and recently introduced it to her. Furthermore, we are in our late 40's and very happily married for 20 years, enjoying hot married sex the way God intended it. We've never been apart but it looks like I could be taking a job overseas that could keep me away from home for long periods of time. Needless to say I was intrigued by your story, we often masturbate together and it sounds like teledildoncs could be the answer if I do take the job. My wife watched me masturbate via Skype once when I was away on a business trip but that's about how far we've gone via the internet and unfortunately I'm not very advanced technology wise. I'll have to get my wife to explain in layman terms how exactly teledildoncs works. It sounds like you guys are having a lot of great marraige sex with it ! I'm grateful for the blessings of this wonderful Christian Married Sex site as I love the Lord and I love hot married sex with my gorgeous wife !

  3. Harper Shelby Thornton
    Harper Shelby Thornton says:

    Hi Taylor! First of congratulations on your pregnancy my dear! Also, you guys are so strong, I don't know how I could be with my hubby gone so much. That said, I'm happy that you've found creative ways to be intimate while you are apart. We were apart one time, but it was still kind of hard. And there was no Skype then! God bless you, honey and your family <3

  4. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    Great story! Thanks!
    Which brand/model of teledildonics do you guys use? We are in a similar situation as you and I think those toys would be great for us, but since it's hard to get honest reviews we haven't taken the step yet…

  5. hornyGG
    hornyGG says:

    Loved the story TayTay! My husband Ben traveled alot for his job and phone sex was a favorite of ours. I too love watching as my Ben strokes his cock . Never used Skype however. Anyway, keep writing and stay horny my dear. God bless you.

  6. Juicy
    Juicy says:

    I have never heard of teledildonics before but what a great thing to be able to do when you are apart from your spouse. It is a way to keep the homefires burning!

  7. Frank
    Frank says:

    First off welcome and thank you for an amazing story.
    Second, not only do I not judge you for using your roommates toothbrush but that is the funniest thing I have heard in years.
    Lastly, I love this post so thank you. I love the advice and the inspiration that you and your husband have given me. Question, also posed by another reader, what brand of Cyberdildonics or Teledildonics are you using? I Google those, and while articles came up discussing them, I couldn't really find actual products that offered them. The idea of using those while apart with my wife to share in long distance sex and send each other our masturbation recordings so that they can masturbate is so amazing. I love that idea and would love to do that with my wife while I am out of town. Can you direct me to a product? Thank you again.

    -Frank

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