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My dear, girls do have those sexual urges. It's just that men have them stronger and differently I think. God bless you for wanting to remain a virgin until you're married, and let me tell you from experience it's ALWAYS worth it! I was with my husband for 7 years before I married him, and now we've been married 33 years. We had sex on our wedding night, and since then we've had amazing sex, an amazing sex life, in part I believe because we did wait. God always has our best interests at heart, dear. Btw welcome to Marriage Heat! God bless my darling.
Yes, God Bless you young lady for waiting. God has a wonderful plan for you and your future. Keep staying pure. God will bless your marriage.
Lynn, God is working powerfully in you both! I loved reading what you wrote. Welcome to MH. LH
We both stayed virgins until our wedding night. It was so worth it.
Lovely story LynnRose! You sound like a smart young lady. Iâm thrilled that this young man respects your boundaries. And some donât agree, but I think singles can enjoy a budding physical relationship in a healthy way (that doesnât lead to intercourse). However Iâm a bit concerned that your BF doesnât share your convictions but rather is just playing nice. Do you think this will be the man you marry? Quite possibly? If so, how far off do you think the engagement and wedding are, as you speculate? I would much rather you do some âmore stuffâ based on how far away you think marriage is rather than making it past 1 year in your relationship. My future wife and I had lots of physical fun â making out, dry humping, heavy petting outside of clothes â and we were both quite orgasmic. However, we only really turned up the heat like 3 months before engagement and then we had a short 6 month engagement… so we were on a fast track toward marriage. And we probably would have gone too far if we had to manage for 1-2-3 years. Remember these 2 things… (a) You need to set the boundaries at any given time. Based on what you wrote, your BF will always be âyes.â (b) Go as slow as possible, b/c physical relationships are always forward moving [near impossible to go backwards]. And feel free to share about the journey on this site â itâs fun to read how singles deal With sexuality and relationships.
Good for you wanting to stay pure until marriage. I myself sadly was taking advantage of so I didnât get to give myself to my husband like he gave himself to me the night we got married. Broke my heart, he feel asleep right afterwards and I laid there an cried myself to sleep because of the fact I wasnât able to give myself to him the way I am suppose to.
But anyways, Iâm proud of you! Not very many women anymore do save there selfs for marriage anymore an thatâs truly sad. Yes, ALL women have that need thatâs what makes us all human. We have that need to want the opposite sex. Thatâs how God created us and it it very very hard. But least you have a boyfriend that truly respects you for that.