A question about breast sensation
Hi, everyone! We have been married 25 years and have just recently discovered Marriage Heat! We were ready for a change, and we are greatly encouraged by the stories on the blog. I have one question. Although I can be stimulated easily in the clitoris and vaginal area and can orgasm, my breasts do not seem to be able to be aroused sexually, by myself or my husband. Either I don’t appear to feel anything arousing around the breasts, or things are very uncomfortably sensitive, especially in the nipple area. Meanwhile, everything works fine “down there”! Do other women experience this also? Can we grow out of this into a more “normal” pleasure experience with the breasts?
My wife has the same issue? I try to be gentle!
I can only speak out of my self-discovery experiences so far but I too seem to have no trigger for arousal in my girls. I can touch them, knead them and cream them with juice, full well knowing that this is supposed to feel sexy. In my mind I imagine it to be sexy while I’d handle my girls but I just don’t feel any tangible arousal. Very rarely does it give me a boost (only when everything down there is already maxed up). I was thinking to myself that maybe that will be different when my future hubby would handle my girls – ’cause the touch of love of a spouse is certainly a preciously different experience. I won’t be able to know for sure till married. I must say I’m not very naturally gifted with my fingers when it comes to touching myself… I don’t have a magic touch or so… I’m rather practical and pragmatic. I do love though to imagine my future hubby feasting on my girls and just loving to handle them – and as far as I can tell, although that will not give me arousal, I just am in love with the knowing that my hubby would be in love with them and aroused by playing with my girls. That as such would make me pretty happy already ?
I guess I can only give an answer to whether we can grow into a more normal pattern in this when I’ll have laid the intimate foundation in my future marriage, for I don’t know yet whether my not feeling aroused when playing with the girls is something in my natural design (a given) or something I learned, something I accustomed myself to through different experiences in everyday life… or maybe it’s a bit of both… this remains to be seen.
My personal bottom line is though that I don’t really care whether I myself feel aroused through handling my girls… Much more important to me is that they hopefully will be able to arouse my future hubby – that he will love on them because he just loves them to pieces is what matters to me. ? God bless you!
For me, my nipples are also sensitive, but I like it best when my husband touches/caresses my entire breast. I just love that 🙂 Try that, it may do it for you too. God bless you <3
As a teen my breasts were very sexually sensitive and were till I had my first baby then it was a different kind of sensitive, it still felt good when Jake rubbed them but it was not the same. A year or so ago it started to feel more sexually sensitive again so I think you may go through times or it may just be me.
Take care and welcome to MH 😉