Describing the Indescribable
The contributors at Marriage Heat have many things in common. We love the Lord and we love our spouses.
We also love sex.
In many of our stories – there are many things that ultimately lead to us having mind-blowing orgasms.
We don’t live for orgasms – but we all admit that we enjoy them immensely.
Orgasms are wonderful gifts from God. He designed them! What a generous Creator He is!
I’m stating from the outset: This story is not a story at all. It is purely designed for the comments that will come under it.
Here is my challenge:
To the best of your ability – try to do the almost impossible: Describe the indescribable! What am I asking you to do? For the sheer enjoyment of what we will all write – Describe what an orgasm feels like to you.
Be creative. Ponder the details. Be as specific as you can. Pretend you are the only person capable of cumming – and you are explaining it to people who have no idea. Include feeling, thoughts, noises, etc.
Let’s drill down deep into why this experience is so special. It will be hot to hear from both men and women.
So again, your assignment – if you choose to accept it – is:
Describe what an orgasm feels like to you
Have fun!
LH
Oh, I'm not going first either!? LH
Sometimes my orgasms are sudden, sometimes not. But either way they are beautiful! I touched myself a few times in my youth, but when I experience orgasm through intercourse, it was so intense that I never went back! My orgasms are also extra special because I feel my husband's arms around me, I feel his strong love for me while my orgasms spread from my ladyplace to all over my body. Sometimes my hips tremble, sometimes buckle, but vocalizations and tightening up always occur and I hold my husband tighter as I've described in my stories.
Hi Harper – enjoyed your comments. I like the variety of your experiences with "sometimes". I too first experienced orgasms from masturbating in my youth. Nothing is better than orgasms with my wife – but I would add that I still love the orgasms from masturbating, too. Mine can be really intense, too. Again, not as pleasurable overall in comparison to being with my wife – but still REALLY good. Lastly, you said that vocalizations "always occur". That amazes me! We usually make noises for sure (over 95% of the time I would estimate) – but there are some occasions for us – at my in-law's house, or kid's just outside our door – when we are consciously not vocal. But, I think it is really hot that you always vocalize. Is your husband vocal too? God bless you. LH
Oh, he ABSOLUTELY is vocal! We love hearing each other orgasm. As I mentioned in a comment on another story, I haven't masturbated at all since I was married, because our sex life was always great and frequent, so I didn't feel the need to especially since nothing beats orgasms from sex (In my humble opinion). God bless you too, LH.
I so agree LH. To me there is nothing to compare to sex with my husband Ben. The orgasms are always so intense and beautiful.
As you know I have freely and often shared my love of masturbation. Do I need to do it? No. Sex with Ben is more than satisfying.
I masturbate because I enoy it. It is fun and very pleasurable.
Ben sometimes works out of town ( not as much as he used to) so I masturbate when I am alone and horny. The orgasms I have when I jill off are wonderful as well, some are quite intense.
I am pretty sure Ben could relate and agree with you as well. We love masturbating together. It is a real turn on for both of us as I have stated in several of my stories.
Well, I'm gonna stop rambling now. Have a blessed day sir. Stay horny always.
I had my first orgasm at age 14, and I've been enjoying them ever since. 🙂 In 2 words: release and relief. Climaxing to me feels like a combination of yelling alone on a mountain top, a 33-degree Pepsi on a 99-degree Summer's day, a hot shower after 700 miles in the car, safely landing after a turbulent flight, finding your lost wallet, good news from the doctor, and peeing after holding it in a half hour too long — all rolled into one. It's the greatest feeling in the world. Period.
Awesome comparisons PacMan! Truly accentuating your climax! LH
The best reply ever…orgasms can be best described just like that
Like a really good full body sneeze of the loins.
Wow! How do you describe what an orgasm feels like? That special little gift that God gave us to experience and enjoy.
To me my orgasms are a sweet mental, physical and dare I say spiritual experience. An explosion of passion and a wonderful release of tension.
My orgasms are like a stick of dynamite with a long fuse. My passion ignites it and it is a slow pleasurable burn that builds slowly with each touch, stroke, kiss and thrust. When that explosion finally happens it consumes my whole body. It takes my breath, I tremble and my legs quiver. My emotions take over and I can't help but vocalize my joy and feelings. My brain is on pleasure overload. It is a beautiful thing.
The aftermath is a feeling of warmth and relaxation. A feeling of love euphoria. I love my orgasms and give thanks to our heavenly father for giving me such a wonderful gift.
God bless and stay horny ya'll!
Awesome Gina! I'm not surprised with you mentioning "a stick of dynamite" and "explosion". "Pleasure overload" also is a helpful, easily translatable concept. I agree! "A beautiful thing". You and Ben encourage me so much. God bless you. LH
I'm aware that any attempt of description I could give for now can in no way match what I will be blessed to experience once I will experience this gift of God with my future husband for real, in all its glory and beauty and depth of creation… but reading through the post and the comments submitted thus far (Mrs. Harper's was super insightful and I love how PacMan has just put it), I came to think about my own experiences (limited by my singleness of course but nonetheless a glimpse of the glory to come in marriage one day)… and, like Mrs. Harper stated, not every one is the same – each is surely beautiful to me personally and I receive it with gratitude at heart – but I can for now best grasp at the moment what it feels like to me in those moments when I catch an orgasm that "blows my mind" away… don't get me wrong… it's certainly not what many would picture now to happen 'cause I am (for the most part) the quiet type, so there's no overwhelming screaming, moaning or anything going on for me. An orgasm that blows my mind away is simply one that moves me within so deeply in love, tangibly feeling wrapped up in love in my inner being – it happens in the physical yet transcends the physical at the same time. When I say within, I really mean the inner being because I'm not exploring physically my most inner place for the time being. ? The most beautiful orgasmic experience happens to me when I connect with God – so my thoughts roll around my gratefulness for God and often I get to talking to Him (in my mind) about my future hubby which causes my thoughts to build up on the loving fantasy of my future hubby with me, and us in Christ, and as the love in my thoughts builds further and further, deeper and deeper, so does the love in my body and it gets so beautifully warm and fuzzy inside… I imagine how my man would take my hand and his fingers would intertwine with mine, and the thought of that just makes me tingle, I imagine finding myself in my man's embrace… and that excites me deeply… I imagine us kissing… the passion at heart just grows and so does the heat I experience within, the pinnacle of it marking the point where I completely lose myself in the love sparked, nurtured, cherished, echoed and received at heart and in spirit. It is indeed indescribable but a most beautiful, intense in meaning, moment of mystery that I get to enjoy and share with God (unless I sidetrack myself in my thought life and mess up my own experience… but I'm a learner, so even then I believe I learn a lot through it for the benefit of my future marriage relationship and hubby – knowing where not to go (in the mind) and what not to do is a valuable experience in the hands of God as well). God bless!
Ps: On another unrelated note: I'm willing to step into the unknown further and have begun to pursue a guy that just captivates me and is mega (really MEGA) attractive to me… I have shared with him how I feel about him… I would love to see where this leads, so as far as I'm concerned, I'm in… I hope he is bold enough to give me the chance to see where it may lead ? Still, my prayer remains the same and I stand firmly on it: His will shall be done in all of it. His will alone, not my own nor the guy's. I do fear God (in a positive way) and I am deeply aware of how much I need Him, so I am in earnest about entrusting myself unto His authority, especially in this, – which is why I pray that if He means for us to be together that He shall draw us together and give us favor with each other and build what only He can build, and if He doesn't mean for us to be together, then He shall cause this to not become, for He knows what's best for the both of us and He alone knows His plans and purpose for us. Thank y'all for keeping me in prayer as I step further out towards my personal dream!
Hi Passionate!
I loved all that you wrote – especially, " it happens in the physical yet transcends the physical at the same time."
I'm excited for you about the possibilities with this new mega attraction! Congratulations. God's will be done – amen! LH
Hi LH, thank you! Obviously not the hottest comment but I like how I experience it and wouldn't wanna have it any other way 🙂 I'm a softie – haha
Thank you for picking up on the mega attraction – haha! I admit I'm blown away by this man God has graced me to come to know now. He is a Christian. He exudes a sweet gentleness that captivates me to no end. I love the goodness I see in his heart. He is more than I could have ever wished for or imagined in terms of looks – he does make me go weak. We seem to fit well together, for as far as I can see thus far. I love that he is not too big about the outdoors – just like yours truly. I love how I can count on him thus far in terms of communication. I love how he handles me – my straightforward, passionate, wearing-my-heart-on-my-sleeve self. I am amazed and so deeply grateful and happy that he is open-hearted and -minded towards me and gives me the opportunity to get to know him, to talk to him and build a relationship with him through communication only for now, as we are oceans apart. I like him a lot. As for me, I could imagine him to be the one. But it's of course way too early to know for sure. He seems to like me too. This is a heart-thrilling experience for me and I am very excited to see where it would lead… and I am very grateful for the blessing God gives me in this man in this moment – whether it will turn out to be but a temporary blessing again or the lifetime blessing that I have prayed for, hoped for, prepared for and dreamed about for so long. Maybe we will get to see my dream unfold. Either way, I'm grateful to God for this blessing, for the joy He makes bubble up in my heart and this amazing new experience He grants me to have! I'm grateful for the hope this sets ablaze in me and I'm gonna enjoy this moment with God to the best of my ability. <3
How do I attempt to describe the indescribable? Only with approximation.
Dear friend who does not know what an orgasm is,
I have this amazing experience that overwhelms my feelings, thoughts and entire body when it happens. God designed us to experience this wonderful explosion of euphoria.
As a man, my cock gets hard as my mind is riveted on sexual thoughts. The panorama of the thoughts is too vast to go into – being so varied.
There is a moment when the sexual feelings and thoughts lift you from one realm to another – you go over an edge and feel the combination of weightlessness and the greatest candy high imaginable! My cock experiences an explosion of white cum like a mini volcano – at the moment of this weightlessness. My toes curl – as they are orgasming in their own way! Breathing doesn't matter for a few moments – as time stands still for this sexual crescendo. Waves of climactic highs hit you like all of your dreams have cum true on these brief moments! Your problems and worries are temporarily blocked an orgasmic "force shield"! At that hardened and exploding moment – my cock seems indestructible! All of my muscle groups flex and convulse like they are the orchestra – following the lead of "Maestro Dick"
My mind loses a tiny sense of consciousness in one sense when transported to orgasm – but in another sense it is heightened about the feeling that it is experiencing.
Friend, this amazing ride lasts a short time. I can only speculate – but it is just a little taste of heaven. God gives us gifts in the measure we need. He has not made this life to be an unending orgasm. But, He made them to teach us something about the joy of marriage. That at the heart of our covenant union is inexpressible joy.
The purpose is for us to think about the ultimate marriage between Christ and His bride (the church). The joy of that union is better than what I just described to you. We wait for the fullness of that in eternity.
For now, we enjoy our orgasms with thankfulness! They are intense and awesome by design. We are to not ever losing sight of the Giver of the gifts. LH
There is nothing that compares to the wonderful and overpower-full feeling of an orgasm.
To me it feels like a huge tension that has been released. My breath is taken away for seconds and every part of me has this wonderful feeling that I can't explain.
God gave us this gift and we use it.
I totally agree Jessa – when it comes down to it in specifics – "I can't explain". I can only make general approximations to how my orgasms feel. The "huge tension released" – yes!!!! Thank you. LH
This comment section couldn't be more truthful and blessed. We all have our own sensations and it's good to hear how it feels and how to describe the indescribable! There's a reason why it's called indescribleable! I didn't get into details because it honestly is an amazing feeling, yes you can explain in certain ways but all together it's here but wonderful! I think it's amazing that no words can really describe! God is amazing! I love your posts, they are very inspiring! I hope my story will get more of an imagine of how it feels! God bless!
Those nights when kissing turns into biting. Those nights where you're grasping so hard for the other and enveloped in such ecstasy that you leave nail marks down his back. Those nights when there's so much passion you can feel the sweat between your bodies soaking the sheets. Those nights you cannot get any closer, but wish you could. Those nights when making love turns into pure passionate fucking. Those nights that you never want to end. Now that is the build up, then suddenly all of this emotion and sexual tension suddenly between you and the love of your life is released…and all the words and sounds and moans that you've been holding back suddenly flow out of you, there's no holding back. There's the I love yous, and fuck me harders, and the sounds and ahhhhh, yes, YES, YES…and then your legs are trembling and you feel like you're in a state of ecstasy and that you couldn't love your spouse anymore then before, but the connection and intimacy you just shared makes you realize you love them so much more, and you thank God for them and this love, then you drift off to sleep in each others arms.
Gracie, I absolutely love your descriptive contribution here! I FEEL your intensity! "Suddenly flow out of you" – that is spot on! "No holding back"! I even like your chronology – it fits us perfectly – "I love you", then "fuck me harder", then sounds and noises that are the precursors to the ultimate explosions – and finally "ahhhhh" and "YES"! You hit the bull's eye! All the way down to the trembling leg. I loved reading yours (and the others) and realizing what an amazingly shared experience we all have. Some variations for sure. But, God has given us a common orgasmic bond in this experience. Thank you Gracie!!! LH
Glad you enjoyed it LH. You're right I do believe that God has given us all this common orgasmic bond. Keep making MH interesting LH, you're a great contributor on here as are many. God Bless!
All orgasms are great, but a really great one is like great worship. Our arms around each other in mutual grace. We're connected physically with my penis is deep inside her inner sanctuary. Our spirits united. There's an overwhelming sense of gratitude being accepted in my brokenness – No shame. I'm reminded of my willingness to sacrifice all for her. And finally sweet sleep from exhaustion, still holding her safely. Orgasms within the covenant of marriage truly are a profound mystery.
Very profound SL! I love what you said about the sense of gratitude – the opposite of selfish, all for me sex. I sensed the joy of the Lord in all you wrote. Praise God! LH
First of all, All of theses comments are super fantabulous! Sometimes, I tell my wife, "Honey, I pray that others are able to have what we have on such a magnanimous level." Marriage Heat and this post namely proves that so many enjoy the God-given gift orgasms. To me, (and from what I've seen- many others) orgasms replicate the experience that the Child of God is able to have with a Relationship with Christ. Carefully and expectedly, HE WILL Blow your mind!
My orgasms with my wife are highly sensory for me as I tend to try to make the sex as long as we can take it. My strongest throws of o's are normally with her on top. As I see her beauty, I tend to slide into the "prepare for takeoff" stage. 10, 9, 8, 7… Around 6 and 5, I feel the deep connecting of not just sexual organs, but also our spirits melding to one. At 4, I am always confronted with the awesome thought that the more I love my wife, the more intense my orgasms are. Here lately, our love, struggles, connection, (3) desire and (2) pent up passion crash together (1-blast off! Imagine flash blang) and release a convulsion upon my body that equals if not exceeds the effect of a tidal wave. For almost the next ten minutes, I shake as if I have connected 220volts of electricity to my body. It is at this time my wife holds me and tells me to breathe. As always it makes me feel Like the presence of Christ's work in my life is made manifest and I am completely changed. What truly blows me away is that the next time is normally stronger than the last. Everyday just get better! Thank you for the opportunity to share with you the highest estatic moment in my life apart from My pleasure and richness with Christ. It is because of Christ and His mercy that I can even speak or experience it.
That was awesome! I loved the countdown and the details as you got closer to cumming! The parallel in the spiritual realm – we should not ever quit pondering that reality! So good. Thank you for you hot and profound comments. God bless you both. LH
I would have to agree that standing or kneeling behind my wife's lovely buns is the most intense experience. Watching her arch her back, boobs swaying, as she offers herself to me is often a sensory overload. Without proper preparation (usually 20 minutes of her sucking on my instrument) I will just lose it and cum quickly. Properly prepared, it is pure heaven to watch as she gets lost in the passion and gives herself over to me.
Two thumbs (and one dick) up.
There is a very different level and type of communication during lovemaking. I believe that lovemaking is when we are most honest with each other. I realize it's not this way for everyone, but for me it's a place where the soul acts. Where the deep self comes out to play.
In contrast to daily life with it's rules, decorum, context, expectations, conscious belief structures, lovemaking has it's own field of play. There, how we interact, talk, touch, feel, express and invite each other is completely different. It's a place where you experience the wildness of another person. Wild in this case means native, raw, free, soulful and most of all honest.
So elusive to describe, but the communication that is happening during lovemaking is from a deep, mysterious and wild place. So if the quest is to describe an orgasm, why start with this?
It's necessary because the stage must be set. An orgasm happens within the space of a wild, honest and native field of beauty, existing uniqely between two people and merges to create a singular burst of creative energy and love.
Take all that away and you have purely a sexual act. A flight of fancy of the mind and imagination — and while still powerful, is not the same. Truth be told I have not masturbated in over a decade. The feeling of being inside my wife is so much more enlivening and elevating that I will save myself for her. Even if that means weeks and sometimes months due to her illness. (something I've written about in past posts)
Love and being present is so much a part of this. Her illness can leave her in depression and lovemaking is something very different then. The connection and expression become so dulled that it's like music that is played flat or out of key. An orgasm experienced that way is not the same. To me it feels counter, like somethings been taken rather than given.
So an orgasm. For me its as if it draws in, pulls together the light energy of our created self. The mind (I find you wonderful, you excite me, intrigue me, allure me, challenge me); the heart (you warm me, move me, touch me, trust me, feel me); the spirit (you awaken me, inspire me, move me, invite me). The soul conjures each of these and invites them to come dance together.
During foreplay each of these, the heart, mind and spirit of each person begin to dance together. They create a music that is unique to the moment. During the build up all these are dawn and spun together as one chord of light energy.
Since that energy is so powerful and it's nature so creative, it cannot be held. We think we hold it, but we don't. As the energy increases it reaches a tipping point where it releases in a single creative burst. We feel it as something profoundly powerful because it is and only true love enables this. This kind of orgasm transcends the sexual.
A release so powerful, an act so generous that it leaves us spent, exhausted, joyous, emptied. The heart, mind and spirit are fulfilled.
A sacred dance, take joy in it's pleasure.
Written for you my wife. I miss you dearly in this way. I pray you be released from your illness someday so that we can dance again. Yet if that is not God's will, I love you still and will treasure the memories of us together.
Again to all who read this, treasure your lovemaking.